My Depressing Story....

[IslandTink676]

Hi. Its not THAT depressing but it is to me cause its happening to me! Anyways theres this guy i really really LOVE. But see i think he's cheating on me even tho he would say "If you cheat then i'd know what type of girl you are."See i would NEVER cheat on ANY boy. Its wrong and it doesnt feel good espspecially if they like you(or vice versa) ALOT!!! Well idk what to do....SOMEBODY help me and if ya want i can tell you more.....Bye

 

[grumpy101]

If you think he is cheating on you confront him and ask him if he is cheating. If he tells you that he is cheating on you break up with him and move on with your life till you get over him then go back out.

 

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

I am interested in knowing what cheating consists of at the age of 13..since you are way to young to be in love with someone as is.

 

[PigSoldier]

Originally posted by daughter_of_amid_chaos
I am interested in knowing what cheating consists of at the age of 13..since you are way to young to be in love with someone as is.

Why the need for all the negativity always? Did you never have boy problems when you were 13?

 

[Horizons16]

I dont know I think she has a good point... you are only 13...

 

[CruiserDew37]

Originally posted by Horizons16
I dont know I think she has a good point... you are only 13...

I thought the same thing. Don't worry about this yet. Honestly, it'll only give you stress that you shouldnt have yet.

 

[IslandTink676]

Lol....ok? Thanks Grumpy101. People my age seem to grow in maturity level pretty fast. So i understand the whole "i'm only 13" bull but really thanks anyways. I understand he might not be "the One" and all that but doesnt mean i cant think he is cheating. Or that maybe he ISN't "The one". Who knows? He could be "the One".But see...No 1 knows! Thanks again Grumpy101.Later...

 

[IslandTink676]

Oh sorry but yeh thanks for making a point PigSoldier.

 

[neosnightmare]

i remember when i was 13 (im a dude) and now that i look back on it, i think that i wasted my 13-16 yr old time frame chasing after girls. i still am now but on a more casual level. its my personal thought that relationships arent *required* until you're settled and living on your own. it was too dificult sneaking girls thru my window and crap. way too tiring and im gonna stop here because anything else that i say is gonna make me sound like a pig.

 

[IslandTink676]

um..yeh it prolly will make u sound like a pig. But yeh understandable. Still it's part of being a dumb teenager.
Later...

 

[neosnightmare]

between that aspect and the feeling of being invincible to harm, yep. im enjoying my last teenage year. but then i turn 21 in 2 years.

 

[IslandTink676]

Lol true and i cant wait.

 

[Roxter79]

HA! Every 13 year old I've ever talked to or met was pretty immature.

Not a very depressing story. Depressing is dating a guy for over a year and then he dumps you and doesn't give a reason. Then ignores you, but says he wants to be friends.

If you think he's "cheating" then ask him about it. If he's that kind of guy then he's not really worth it. If you've been together for a while, then he'll most likely be honest with you.

 

[DisneyBlondie18]

Originally posted by Roxter79


Not a very depressing story. Depressing is dating a guy for over a year and then he dumps you and doesn't give a reason. Then ignores you, but says he wants to be friends.

Too true...I dated a guy for 2 years, he told me that we were "meant to be together" and of course i fell.....And then he was like, oh yeah, i think our relationship is getting too dull....we should still be friends though. Well, we continued to hang out ans such....Until about a week ago, i suddenly stopped recieving phonecalls from him only to find out from his friend that he has been seeing another chick. And he didnt have the nerve to tell me. So thats depressing....more than thinking a guy is cheating and nto knowing...but i do rememebr 13, and it hurts still...you are a budding teen and i remember what it feels like....dont get too upset...there are way too many more boys!! (trust me)

 

[IslandTink676]

Lol Thanks peoples.Yeh i didnt really give every detail cause its not everybodies business but i gave the main details.I havent talked to him yet but plan too. One of my friends thinks hes not but just seeing if i trust him.Its kind of hard but oh well there too many guys out there. And hopefully one of The many boys out there WILL treat me right.Thanks bye....

 

[PolynessianBaby]

I am only 14 and I'm a freshman this year...so I know what it is like to have those sort of problems...Last year in 8th grade a liked one guy almost all year and he told me he liked me too only come to find out 5 months later the last day of school that he lied the whole year...and then asked one of my bff's out and didn't even tell me about it...just decided to let me find out about it...I'll tell you what...Boys aren't worth it and its like my bestest friend in the whole world told me...You can get any guy you want, just as long as you are yourself....if the guy is cheating on you he doesn't deserve you! But talk to him about it...find out what is going on...and remember, you're going to date so many people before you find "The One" and I can tell you now that at 13 you're to young to say the four letter word "Love" in less its to a family member or close friend....Even I won't say! I hope everything works out for you HUn! If you need to talk just PM me!

Taylor

 

[petey's sweetie]

Originally posted by daughter_of_amid_chaos
I am interested in knowing what cheating consists of at the age of 13..since you are way to young to be in love with someone as is.

u r NEVER and i mean NEVER too young to "love" some one but when i say love i dont mean You'd die 4 them or any thing. I mean u like them a super dooper lots. I mean my little sisters say they love Jack Skelington 4 crin out loud!!!!

so stop being so mean!

 

[IslandTink676]

Lol...y'all peoples arer nicer then those last people. Thanks bunches. Later...

 

[SnowWhite1985]

Don't let anyone ever tell you that you're not in love. I am turning 19, have a serious bf and i know that i am capable of knowing how i feel. I am telling you that i had a bf from 14-17 and it was love. just bc u love someone or even really like them, you have to understand that you are young and worrying about some guy that you think could do that to you isn't worth it. obviously if you're even thinking that hes doing it..hes not worth it. a relationship should have trust. i say if you haven't done anything yet..just dump him.