- Jul 10, 2014
thank you for asking. lots of ups and downs. i'm actually not sure if it's normal that my 17 year old son does not want to talk about it and is acting like nothing ever happened. he cried prior to her death , days leading up to it , but the second she died, nothing. is that normal idk and should i just give him space? i have no idea.I’m so sorry. How are things going at your house?
my daughter wants to buy herself a nice charm with Lucy's picture in it and i thought that was such a nice idea. like a charm necklace maybe. with her name on it. love that for her. We bought a plant online for her spot that we buried her and a cat statue.
my husband wants to run and buy another kitten!! I said no: we must grieve our Lucy first and not try to replace our loss and feelings with another. And I have Ricky who is 12 and will be stressed. Ricky seems to show no awareness she is gone which is weird too, but they didn't get along (not from same litter).
Thank you for asking. I love our community. It's the only space 'mommy' can vent. And today i'm 50 actually. melancholy bday for sure. i bought myself a disney gift though (haha): a piece of art work i ordered online from riviera resort for my dining room! no one else got me anything, so why not!