I'm really sad today. Several students in my school district lost parents a year ago...a few teachers lost their grown children...all of us seem to know someone who knew someone who.....

I probably shouldn't post anything...I'm pretty upset....
But I just have to add one thing here... Rules in most school districts in my state are set up by school boards who are elected by parents and taxpayers in the those towns.
The administrators compose and publish the school rules at the start of each year. This information is always given to parents. If there is a dress code, it is usually included in this information. Sometimes teachers have input into these guidelines, but most times not. If the rule is NO headgear (in my district exceptions are made for anything required for religious observance) then the rule is NO headgear (or coats or beepers or headphones or candy or Snapple...)
As a teacher and employee of the school district (and the administration) I am charged with the responsibility of following ALL school rules. It is not discretionary. My opinion of the rule is unimportant. Therefore, if someone appears in my class in violation of a rule, I address it as mandated. If I'm to send the child to administration, that's what I do. All of us who are in any workplace have rules to follow. If I overlook a rule for someone else's child, don't I have to do the same for yours? If I overlook too many rules, will I still be able to guarantee all my students a safe, positive learning environment? Please don't blame teachers for following the rules.
If a parent (or student, for that matter) objects to certain school rules, there are ways to effect change. Go to your Bd of Ed meetings, speak up. Meet with administrators and talk. Make an appointment with a teacher to get information. But please don't encourage or congratulate your children for 'standing up to authority'. So many criticize some schools for allowing too many students to flaunt authority...the place seems out of control and no learning takes place in chaos. Yet often these same people want the rules bent when it is THEIR child who is held accountable.
I AM NOT SAYING THAT THIS IS THE CASE WITH THE FIRST POSTER HERE WHO WAS UPSET ABOUT HER DAUGHTER!
I'm only responding to the caustic tone so many have posted here...
I just wish that everyone understood how hard it is to please EVERY parent and help EVERY child learn EVERY day!
I guess I have to chuckle...every August my neighbors are always saying "I cannot WAIT for school to start"..."These kids are driving me CRAZY!!!" And we've all laughed at those great commercials of parents dancing gleefully as they get the kids ready for school.... Well...where do you think those kids go? They are in OUR classrooms for the next 10 months!!!!Please, temper your criticisms with just a bit of compassion.
I have to tear myself away from here now and the TV. The presentation on the DIS homepage was awesome, IMHO. Tomorrow morning by 6:45, I'll be readying my class to receive your kids...152 of them...sad, confused, anxious, scared, lonely, happy, excited, apathetic, cool, needy, confident...It will be 9/12...the day after AGAIN...and we have a lot to learn.
'night all and God Bless. Thanks, Pete, again for these Boards!