First of all, let me preface this response by stating that I own all of my
DVC points at BCV, and we had a wonderful stay there this past December.
Now...getting back to the OPs comments. There's not much you can do about the requests. We all hope that we get at least 1 or 2 of our requests, but like they say there's no guarantee. However, there is no excuse for the actions of the hotel staff, particularly the idiot who called himself a manager.
I hope beyond all hope that you took down his name. Making a smart comment like he did to your daughter is totally uncalled for. You are there to have a good time, and in some instances to pay his salary. What I think this idiot forgot was that he was supposed to be working for you, and not the other way around. If you do have his name, I would hound anyone related to DVC as long as I could, including Mr. Jim Lewis, until some sort of punishment is brought down on this person. If someone in his position made a comment to one of my family members like that, I don't know if I could have held back like you did.
We have a large gathering planned coming up in November, and I'm hoping that this is an isolated incident. Looking out on the resale boards there's not alot, if any, BCV points up for grabs, so maybe that is a tell-tale sign that is. That doesn't make up for your experience, and I do hope you'll give BCV another chance.
I do hear comments such as this coming from members who have stayed at BWV and WLV, but not much from OKW members. I'm still sticking by my original opinion that a majority of the problems with these DVC resorts are due to the fact that they share staff with a main resort. I will be anxious to see how the service at SSR pans out in a year or so, seeing that like OKW, it is independent of a main resort.
Brian