Just in case anyone is interested, I finished making my last 30 day FP+ selections last night (this morning) and overall it went pretty well. I never even tried for A&E or FOF parade, knowing they were unavailable. I got pretty much everything I wanted EXCEPT for a FP+ spot for the 9 PM MSEP on either 5/6 or 5/8. Since Wednesday 5/6 is supposed to be a 3 out of 10 crowd level (per Josh at Easy WDW) that is the night we'll just try to get a good spot and see the parade from wherever. The only reason I wanted it is that my 5-1/2 year old son has difficulty waiting for long periods of time (interactive queues are fine, but sitting down to stake out a parade spot may not be).
There are likely a few picks that weren't my best use of FP+ but my husband and I decided to use them for attractions we can go on as a family. Hopefully DINOSAUR won't completely freak our son out.

We ended up picking:
Sun 5/3: Meet Ariel, Peter Pan's Flight, Splash Mountain
Mon 5/4: Spaceship Earth (may change to Character Spot, can't decide), Turtle Talk, Illuminations
Tue 5/5: Toy Story Midway Mania, Star Tours, Muppet Vision 3D (will try for a 4th of Fantasmic after Muppets)
Wed 5/6: Meet Cinderella/Rapunzel, Seven Dwarfs Mine Train, Haunted Mansion
Thur 5/7: Kilamanjaro Safari, DINSOSAUR, Kali River Rapids
Fri 5/8: Pirates of the Caribbean, Buzz Lightyear Space Ranger Spin, Tomorrowland Speedway
Edit: our 5/3 rope drop plan is to hit Space Mountain and parent swap (our son is just about the height but he won't ride it). Hopefully the lines at Big Thunder Mountain won't be too long on the Wednesday. We'll have to swap for that one too.