Our must do's are:
Ohana, why? Because the food is wonderful and all you can eat. We are good eaters and the dessert is the best on property in my opinion. (and I don't like bread pudding...lol)
I feel exactly the same way, (and I don't like bread pudding)!
We didn't care for Boma's. Too different, and I'm NOT a picky eater.
We always do Lecellier even tho I could do without it, my family loves it.
The last couple of trips we've taken a disboard tip and went to 1900 Park Fare on arrival evening and loved it! The atmosphere sets the tone, just enough "disney" to get ya in the mood without buying a park pass. Our only Must have is definitely Ohana!!!