Very, very true. My Mom is Japanese and my Dad is of Irish/Scottish descent and when the topic of interracial relationships come up, folks never think of our family in that equation. Doesn't bug me, just makes me think, "HEY! HEY! HEY! We're interracial!!! Look at me! Asian green eyes! Come ON!"
I think of your interracialness.

OK so I didn't know you were mixed race until now (are you the one on the left in your picture?), but since DH is half Korean, making DS quarter Korean (and 1/8 Welsh, 1/8 Portuguese, and approx 1/2 Irish mutt), I think of white and Asian *first* when I think of interracial stuff.

Oh, and speaking of your green eyes, our DS has bright red hair, and hazel eyes, and light skin that TANS w/o burning (lucky kid, says his pink mother).
Shogun would be a LONG movie for this project, and it's not modern, but it might work.
Remember that West Side Story is just Romeo and Juliet...
Husband has now retracted his Twin Dragons comment
I'm really not sure they get into the interracial stuff (I think it's pretty much about being Chinese with old-school parents in a modern world), but there's the Wedding Banquet.
Hubby mentioned Wedding Banquet, and also mentions Mr Baseball, which I've never seen (but it seems a good excuse to watch Tom Selleck).
Bend it Like Beckham.
Dang, DH is coming up with all of these!
He continues...La Bamba.