BIG SIGH Can't you just hear it?
Poor woman, I'm sure it has been a trying time for her and the kids. If she's never been how about just lending her your Passporter or UG to look at and getting her on the DIS?
Disney is just so different than anyplace else, I'm sure she hasn't gotten the whole picture yet. You are bring a great friend and I'm sure she appreciates it.
My DH and I travel with 4 kids all the time and have been for many, many years (yup, we have six kids but occasionally one grows up, stays behind, or we add a new one!) and room size, occupancy levels, and sleeping arrangements are often the biggest headache of our trips (not just Disney).
Ask her in for a cup of joe or tea and show her pics from allears.net or just pop over here. It realy doesn't take long to figure it out. Disney is different b/c so much is linked to your reservation.
And airmattesses are a life saver, they can be packed easily, help the boy/girl sharing a bed thing and can be put away during the day time in a snap.
No, I am not recommending breaking any rules. I just wanted to say that coming from a large family and now having one of my own, being together for a week of family time is not such a big issue with us. We share well, we know how it works and just have it down to a science I think so it's not about room so much as legally getting that room.
Let us know how it works out. I'd be happy to chat with her. Just PM me.
When is she going? I forget? Maybe if she gets
free dining that makes more money for room look like that much less to pay! It sure did for us!