More backyard drama...

SundaeAfternoon

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Some of you will remember a few weeks ago, I posted a thread about two girls hanging out in our backyard without our permission. The thread got a little ugly, so I didn't want to dredge it back up. However, if you want to read it, here's the link: http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=2379604

With that said, there was another incident over the weekend. I was inside the house and all of a sudden a boy and girl (both 12 or 13?) came FLYING past our pool screen, screaming like banshees. I went over to the windows in our guest room and saw them standing right up by the bedroom windows. They took off around the side of our house again. I went out front to take my dog out and they were chasing each other through the whole neighborhood, running up peoples' driveways, grabbing on to cars and hiding behind them, etc. It was pretty appalling. My mom is pretty mad about it, and of course she is never around when it happens.:laughing:

I found out they are neighborhood kids. Do you think we should go down and speak with their parents? If we did, it would be in a nice manner, of course. We don't want any enemies, but they need to stop coming in our backyard. At this time, we can't build a fence, so that's out. I definitely wouldn't mind having one in the future though. I don't know if we'd need to get permission from the city to build one, as 99.9% of the homes in our city are without fences. So I figure we can either try talking to the parents, or let it go completely and hope someone doesn't fall and break a leg, and then we could be dealing with a ridiculous lawsuit.
 
If this is an isolated incident and you haven't tried talking to the kids yet, I wouldn't go talk to the parents. I would, however, prepare myself for the next incident, and plan exactly what I would say to the kids if it happens again. I wouldn't be mean about it, but I would find an assertive way to let them know that it's not appropriate to do that.

Hopefully, that's all it will take - there really are still some kids out there that don't want to get "in trouble" with grown-ups and will listen to reason. My 13 year old son is one of them. :thumbsup2 If a neighbor came to me before *politely* asking my son to keep off the property, my first question would be. "have you tried politely telling him how you feel yet?"
 

If I didn't already know the parents I'm not sure I'd say anything to them, those kind of things can go very badly and can sometimes have lasting repercussions. I think that I wouldn't do anything about it unless it starts happening on a regular basis.

Hmmmm...but I just might walk my dog around the perimeter of my house and yard and not clean it up ::yes:: .

agnes!
 
If this is an isolated incident and you haven't tried talking to the kids yet, I wouldn't go talk to the parents. I would, however, prepare myself for the next incident, and plan exactly what I would say to the kids if it happens again. I wouldn't be mean about it, but I would find an assertive way to let them know that it's not appropriate to do that.

Hopefully, that's all it will take - there really are still some kids out there that don't want to get "in trouble" with grown-ups and will listen to reason. My 13 year old son is one of them. :thumbsup2 If a neighbor came to me before *politely* asking my son to keep off the property, my first question would be. "have you tried politely telling him how you feel yet?"

That sounds very reasonable.:thumbsup2 I definitely don't want to be mean. I just want it to stop.
 
Hmmmm...but I just might walk my dog around the perimeter of my house and yard and not clean it up ::yes:: .

Not a bad idea!:lmao:

I have spoken to one of the parents before, but that was only because her pit bull ended up in my garage. He got out and she was chasing him down the street with a broom (???) and he ran right up to us in our garage. I let her borrow a leash to bring him home. I'll never forget when she brought it back and acted nervous when my golden retriever met her at the door. LOL because they are much scarier than pit bulls!
 
I would not bother at all. They are kids. Even if they are 14yo, big deal. What harm did they do running up and down people's driveways. I would not care one bit. Let it go. JMHO.
 
I would not bother at all. They are kids. Even if they are 14yo, big deal. What harm did they do running up and down people's driveways. I would not care one bit. Let it go. JMHO.

Yeah, this.
 
i agree that it shouldn't be an issue. but it's your house, and if you don't want them on your property, tell them so. i would tell the kids next time you see them out that you don't want them in your yard. just be nice though, 'cause it doesn't really sound like they are doing anything out of line.
 
I'm so thankful where I live - kids still play hide and seek and manhunt all over neighborhoods, just like I did when I was a kid... ;)
 
Okay, so the consensus is that I should let it go. I'll go with that for now, and hope the situation doesn't get out of hand. Thanks for the advice.
 
I would not bother at all. They are kids. Even if they are 14yo, big deal. What harm did they do running up and down people's driveways. I would not care one bit. Let it go. JMHO.

At 13-14 they should know to respect people's property. Would you be ok with a bunch of kids having a party in your yard? After all, they're kids.
 
You have a pool and no fence? Is that legal where you live?
 
I understand now. Ask the kids nicely to stay off your property. Shouldn't be a big issue.
 
At 13-14 they should know to respect people's property. Would you be ok with a bunch of kids having a party in your yard? After all, they're kids.

Can you please point out where a party was mentioned? I must be blind. :3dglasses
 




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