
...you guys with your "women talk"...........,
not in a million years...would've thought i be joining in......its been some
30 years...and i am a tad bit rusty.....

, you know, aging
sorta have that effect?
.........i am very depress...in our sunday paper...ran a story about the
death rates.." rate of u.s. women dying in childbirth on the rise."....
a father 's cry: [lost wife in 2000]---"the hardest thing to understand is
how in this day and age, in a modern hospital with doctors and nurses,
that somebody can just die like that" --
ok?..i can't /won't comment directly...due to legal stuff....but this is
exactly why i shared "our" horror stories...at the very least..our middle
son..would /should have been killed or severely brain damamge...without
the.....my wonderful lil'miss..preforming the biggest miracle..i 've ever
witnessed!

, remember.....i was involved in alot of ob experiences..
& alot of lil' miracles. [ every word i rote...were not only reality...but
does not do it justice..there are no words that can captured all she did.
* my wife can drive me nuts on occasions-

, but her sarfices
toward "protecting" our children.,.."holds me dearly in my vows".
* i know this wil be hard to believe..but back some 20 years ago..we
had a very attractive rec. therapist..& for whatever , she was enthralled
with "me"...ironic, all the rest of teh guys were trying...like the devil.
as for my intnentions..not for one second...as i already had the best ,
they called it the bargain..best there ever seen- [the who's album]
..my experiences., like everyone else..has molded me into the person iam
today..for better or worst.....i am very

with the results..& no
regrets...passing what others were desiring..for all the wrong reasons.
..now, today..my reflections illustratethe old fashioned values...as
i can now appricate the things i used to take for granted....
dear lux girl...ha!...baby wt, can be soooo misleading......8plbs can be
premature..& hyaline [sp]- membranes..not matured...can/will die
without critical life support.... * my sister's last baby was on respirator
for 2 weeks...and was 8 lbs....they screwed up his due date.
...yes, i can understand..the trepidation..regading ..ob procedures...

..for your husband, mp,..well, tell him..alot of doctors faint
the first time around....speakin of.....i hope it is realized some day...that
alot of nurses...without their "doctoring" skills.....good doctors would never
be!... iam just a rn, however, -* remember?????- * i cannot stressed
enough.....for all the miracles i help /been a part of..were "gifts" passed
onto me..by some unbelievable nurses..they are no longer with us-
* warning..blood/guts sction--twinkle,
needles...pj- girl... big?...have you ever seen an animo???
my por lil'miss cutie-

, that day....thank god, we researched and
went for the best..we could find..."he missed!

, hit the plancentra
[sp.-remmber i am no speller]....his needle, about 30" long..fill with blood-

, * this is where "critical knowledge" paid off.....instead of
pulling out...he waited..so the clotting could kick in....sometimes, seconds
can/will mean the difference between life and death. "i told him- you!,
better not lose that anomtic fluids!~ he laughed--"in 20 years- never!"
ha!,..years later..my wife, who was afraid...to tell me, "the lab, did exactly
that!!!..they lost it!!!!!! * so you know, this dr. was one on the tops in
all the field..in this highly complicated field...from what i heard.....he
blew..all over.......

, and got everyone involved fired....!!!! * this
was life and death....
....the article does not address what "insiders know"....carless/uncaring/
unprofessionals, untrained......"effects". you have no idea.....how much
is covered up....however, those with workable knowledge / commmon sense
can "see" these "mistakes...sometimes..its adminastors...making $$$$$.
..i get so upset..we're talking people well being..human beings!
..why? so many are allowed?..its a number game.....based on real life
shortages..and finding dedication in the caregivers....who posses the
skills of knowledge..but applications...& due processing. * common sense
is so critical...as there is no body process/functioning that cannot be
explained where one having even below basic iq , can understand.
[ evereything i do..is based on my medical knowledge..that is in the
person best interest...*by their preceptions. meaning, iam obligated,
not to do things that is harmful to health needs.
..the good news....if what they rpeorted is accurate...the corrective
measures..are not only self evident..but quite simple to resolved with
some additional measures aimed at preventing the causes of death.
...iam depress....reading this..cos its shaeful...we're going backwards.

..however, i knew/ecpected these rsults..when our life expectancy
dropped below to 46?????
...now iam old, and very, very rusty....like 30years ago..but c'mom ..
i stil can process what they are reporting......"excessive bleeding, infections,
and clots....with bleeding leading the way? you know? ..my job was
mostly taking care of life supports for the newborns....* we gave vit k
injections to reduce their bleeding from going thru labor...why not
mothers? why sin't pt/ptt being monitor before they are in the delivery
room...surgery---? * you know ..ther a very good medical reason
for plopping the baby on top of the mother's belly? "the baby helps,
the mother's uterus contract..so does "nursing" before scooting the
lil'one to the nursey...
bear in mind..i am only summazing...but..once we "id" problem areas..
there is no excuse not to take corrective actions...none!
* we had an idiot rn..that was no good for nothing...forcing me, into
a very dedicated position.....again..think about it.. your husband
should not be the one between your legs at the time of birth...inside
the hospital..that we paid big bucks..for what??? nor can i ever expressed
the miraclew..my lil'miss pull out..that day...
iam very alarm..of this awful trend..."we-us"..needs to see these problems
are addressed and corrective/support measures are done...all the legal
actions in the world..can't give that lil'boy his mother..and thats a shame.
