thanks..twinkle m. ...* sometimes..when posting i'm thinking
about how much you all are connected.
.so many times,,,, i see where everyone all excited...i just
wish..you could 've met..the people....who shared their wonderful
insights..with me..so long ago.
...now i think..it wise..to be careful....based on this person's history. by
all her visits to wdw, she must live close..& with nearly 60 cruises....
....alot of $$$ to blow. now, i am not "privileged"..to the dis politics..
..but she could....be a supporter$$$, and thus creating her realm
for abusing others. think predator..getting off..on "forcing others to
tolerate...her quaking...by using her $$$, like those using "candy"...
..to entrap children.
..u-kno...?....i missed alot...her warning signs....myself...when i
reviewed her postings. "inkkognito--really ?

..this person
goes right after "attention"..like..flies..to xXXxX!
..oh, in her signature..claiming...they "own"..a disney's suit. right?!
..s/s..of delusional thinking. regardless...her suite..does not extend
out on decks.
..if i remember..right, " let's keep track...of the eb panama cruise,"
shortly after we got back..so near sept. 5-10?
..the other post, " flash photography @ soaring"...9/16/08, & then the post
about..baby centers...might have been the day before? [a page or 2 back.
... ..for me ,
disneyland..belongs to eneryone..thats means..everyone~
included by o'hana...that no one is left behind. * note those misbehavings
..should be redirected by cast members with "limit setting" skills... or
all placed...in their "proper containers"...as to not interfere..with normal
operations.
a good example..is ms. cluck..crowing & pickin..@ any passer~byer.
..just my luck!
...if you read.., it is significant..to recognize..some of the lil'de-tailings
.."personality..disorders"..are so fond of using. experts..of hiding the
truth,by manpulating.."half -truths."..ie, she boasted.. in~deeds push
her. that is true...after her second attempt....+ ..the lil' fact,
i pushed her backwards.."not forward"..because..she was ramming me.
[ while my hands were full, i simply used my forarms...to stop her.
.it's called defense.
...what ...motivated me...was her willness to go way out her way..to
set ..me up. she grabbed some kid..with her arms around him & with
her fists..into a "batterin ram. "...fyi, that kid..is the only other person
who..saw / knows..her actions. all the rest are simply..going by what she
"acting out". [ drama queen].
now./..why would a complete stranger..just decide to hit her? if some
manic..did ...[ reference to her determination to make others pay...
..think of her aggressions..@ epcot-

].....do you really think..
..she would not have filed charges? my suspicous..me thinks, she
would've....

...any guy attacking her....
this is...one nasty, nasty, person . thru & thru. no manner of wah-wah,
can delete, erase, or covered ..her dirty lil' acts of transgressions.
( now if he only had asked..permission???

..* her own words..
revealed exaclty...what her mind set. it's called rationization { making up
excuses for manipulating reality} & projecting blame...for her own behaviors.
worst....she has no idea..she was encountering..a professional mental
health..person.
i really think...setting a limit & redirecting...her , made her madder than
a wet hen. [ get it?..clucking hen?] .for all that, i continued taking pictures
& movies. no way..was she going to stand..for that! so she called for back
up. [ ps, i be a monkey uncle..i read another post...of her..where she
admitted ..she's in her 40's..& her husband..in his 50's.
..gold digger? * that was my first thought..when he came over...i told
him....not to crossed the line...& pointed..out...his size..was no match
for our age differences...i can still "see'..him pondering...& wondering
"how...did i recognized these lil'deatails".] * as you kno..my work can /
is..very physical @ times..* we must help those with serious self -
controls..issues..to get a grip...or restraints. anytime..i am redirecting
..iam also evulating...the choices..i must make...to prevent injuries
..@ all possible. even with his buddy...i made it clear...."this is what
i do for a living...oh, & see? the 6'6" boy..over there..that's my son.
now, when this failed..they went to their friend, the cm. & this
was when he enagaged..me..they were...hollering profonaties over
him...of course, directed @ me. oy! ..i repeated..every word..right
back...right into their faces. now my wife, always advised....they most
often do this...to make me look bad. of course, it does....however,
..we have found....those..willing to verbal abuse...required a equal
force..to maintain self control. blast'um , i did...and as noted before..
..."their cm"...tried..to "correct me."..this was not unexpected.
when this happened , it gave me the opportunity..to redirect his
attentions..to what was really going on. "common grounds"....&
that's when he explained...he was told by disney..they're try
suppose make everyone happy. i told him....i feel sorry for what
must be tolerated.
..he sorta shocked...me...because, he asked..what did i wanted?

.."leave me alone..& i jumped back up...for more pictures.
ok?..see?..& with the cm there....she could no longer pull her
stunts. the next thing.....she must have sent..her husband..for
security..& thats' when...you can read..all her friends...labeling
me..as some kind of "beast".
cox's army...& the poor security guy.. had to listened..all her
attention seekings. "more clucking"...as i kept taking my pictures.
..really? she said i hit her? ok? let
her show..you the "mark"! & "pull your video!". he left & came back.
here's what the security guy informed me.."these people are nasty. let
me find..you a better place....funny, huh?
..now why should someone innocent be forced to moved? he then
asked if i wanted to press charges. nah, since she was unsucessful
in knocking my cameras out. [ i never knew..until reading her posts
..she has a thing..about going after people cameras...& name calling]
* i took pictures of the stand..with all of them on it....with room
to spare. i pointed this out to security & the 2 cameras in both my
hands. i told him if i pressed charges, i would been requesting drugs/
etoh tests on~all of them. [ except the kid ..who would be
required..to write...{ kids don't like to lie}. and besides disney
videos..i had my too,..though..trying not to have her in it..clearly
me redirecting her "to stay away & not to touch me." wow,
if i had known..this was the same person..beforehand..i would
have insisted on charges...* i don't care how much money this
gold digger has...she needs to be stopped from harrassing
people...out to have some fun.
in summary, this wasn't worth mentioning...in the begining. @ my work,
it is our standard...response. nor did it prevent me from
taking pictures. [ sorry for her, my objective had nothing to do
with her...if she desired lady~like treatments..than she should
"practice' that type of behaviors. instead..acting mental, will
produced my standard..limit setting].
i do think..she needs to get a grip..on what her money entitles her,
[room vs. common grounds]....& she needs ..to recognize..she has "no
rights"..to touch others...or destroy their property..even if guests
are not following..the rules. she is not an offical enforcer...& i would
suggest her reporting any rule infractions to the cast members.
oh ,she probably knows..disney 's policy..is to make everyone happy..
..& she will used this pafication..to justify [rationizes] her poor
judgments. however, when she does grab & throw..someone camera..i
don't think..they're going to ignore her...anymore. * even if they are
"idiots"-

. i think..because..she didn't get her way..with me,
is why...she manpulated..the facts....so she could paly the "victim",
not the victor.
however......coming across..how often she is posting & her content..
...is classic..borderline personality...d/o...,...one can see that she has
no insights..on making changes...& worst, she see no wrong..in calling
others..names...or acting out...whenever someone gets in her way.
..one can expect her to continue...to post the same.
me is grateful..she isn't my wife,

...reading her lil'signature
title..sorta goes a long..way explaining her....abusive lifestyles.
my advice, when one comes across such intrusive beahviors,
only redirect when they forced you..otherwise..move forward.
* note..more than anything else....there were some other postings
complaining about the kids & people. [ first 2weeks in sept. on
the cruise site. ] and also on the cruise meet site when everyone
got back. some were c/o of women bathing suits..of course, other
women. & you kno?..those kids..."belong"..to someone? not them?
....this was a cruise..by alot of repeaters. and as me & my wife
discussed ahead..of time....some were going to make their own
rules.
finally...the issue....that is very alarming..to me....has nothing
to do with this incident. rather....the diffculties..of the "group'
not...recognizing.....dangerous behaviors from intrusive
[ inappropirate types]..to those..due to tired/irritable types.
...someone..was "slammed into the threater's doors"..and
another ..was when a father..had finally lost..it, and was dunking his
teenager...@ cc. and the kids..riding..on top..of the elevators...wow!
these could have produced..serious injuries...& should not been
ignored. * some adults....did dives..into..the adult pool. a broken
neck..should..would'v put a damper on their fun? * also..i can't
beleive..the kids groups..did organized "dodge ball". wonder why
some felt, bullied? * they also..did a sleep over...& after midnight..i
saw..the counselors..marching the kids..around the decks..
wonder..if the parents.knew..or had to deal with cranky kids the next
day?
ahhhhhhhhhh, but do not get the wrong idea,

...i saw alot
of improvments...* i'm so grateful..disney now "closed"..their pools.
~~~

, while..its a bummer for adults..i have no doubts..this
saved lives. & while..that lil' negative encounter..cost me about
10 minutes...of happy time, it didn't effect none of us! as for the guy
focusing..on m lil' jordan...once he knew..her parents...aware & always
nearby...he gave us a wide berth..or was very pleasant after that.
...&..i'm very excited...the crew..signed me all kinds..of pictures mattes.
..and i got alot..of characters..poses by themselves...

, now
all i have to do..is blow them up..to 8 by 10...& they'll make...great
gifts..for our local big brothers & sisters..& our children hospital.....
....during christmas.
..* do not give me any x-credit...this is important for me, becuase
of all those...that gave me so many gifts.....growing up. including
cripple children....so i'm just "passing-on"...what they started.
...ha!..some did have terrible kids problems...however, i was on the
elevator..with a young teenager, & she was instructing her lil'sister
about good manners. * she made me think all of you,
...the nurses..@ work..gave me..a special mickey..ornament..for
picking up the hard rock tees..
...the benefits..of practicing....good manners & the disney spirit?..
@ check in...we were one of the last.....because..of jet lag!

..however, the lady..gave us extra laynards...&
..the highly desired..#2 boarding passes. think fastpass..for
the cruise! + all kinds of stickers....
as for the disers....plez..don't get the wrong idea...the majority were
great!..we had great table mates..& great servers. those factors
are the really important ones. "our table"..was one magical experince
..every night!...so much..that the table..next to ours..were a young
family..& they scooted next to us. he,he,he, they..had a lil' terror
of a tomboy...she was sweet as she could be!
disney cruise..requires..sharing..for the memories!
pay attention!..as noted..the night..we were trying for the
stairways..picture?....well, peter pan..was in civilian clothing....
but still had his disney attitudes......

, & was more than
happy....to take ours.
me & the captain..had a lil' talk about the panama canal. he made
his own rounds..around the ship. i told..him , i heard about his eating
dinner with "my wife"...& i got one eye on him. he laughed...&
someone took our picture.
if someone..ask me, the best thing from our cruise was the memories.
..we do not expect disney to be prefect. sometimes, you might
find yourself in a position ...to assist others..in their quests. i suggest
take a few minutes to participate....because their apprication..will
delight you. [ we made all kinds of friends. ] * the young father
from north carolina...took alot effort..to track us down...to
thanks us.
& since disney is a gathering place, i don't think it is unusual to
"bump"..into trouble. redirect & set limits.. only when you have to
& move on. remember, you have something..they desire...a happy
attitude...in a happy place.
...will not stop us from going to wdw, or cruises.
oh, the benfit of reading..those willing to lie....or twist the truth,
[the same thing]....it helps me to recognize those...to stay
away from...as they seek out others..for their devious intentions.
* i have no proof..but i do think..when they "watch"..others..enjoying
the disney 's magic....irrks..them into "acting out". misery loves
company? especailly, after one sweet diser..made a thread..talking about
all the good things..some got on it..., "clucking-again", about all their rude
encounters..[ think about that?} ....where the mods..were forced to
closed the tread. it almost like they got to "kill"..everyone else
happiness..phew!..stay away is my response! & be miserable on your
own time!
nabby,i don't know..her personally..only by her postings..and then
seeing her pattern of behaviors. seeing/reading that...told me all
i needed to know. while..intrusive , manipulative behaviors..are
common....she was @ the nxt level. she actually turned..behind...
the show,....and rammed me. that's physically acting out, as
she tried..to knocked my cameras out.

. so much, that she
actually got her arm "caught"...in my one camera strap. i was
forced..to push her off me, & untangled her arm. think..how
aggressive..where her while arm..was inside my strap....& in true
"borderline' fashion....she started yelling @ me for "attacking her"?
....projection. and instead of stopping..she keep on trying new
stuff.
her epcot posting..? she set herself up....for threatening him..by
calling them "idiots"....classic....
who would get involved..with ..a mother changing her baby? i'm sure..
..the lil'one....didn't realized..he/she was suppose to wait..til....the
baby station?
ps, i wrote..all of this..from last night...thru out the day, going
back & forth. sorry for the many repeats, but i am doing more
than explaining..iam showing what ....i was observing....for
redirecting her actions...during the enconters.
