Hi, it's me again. I just wanted to post another update. We were actually given 4 fast passes each (for our party of 6) and they assured me O'hana would not charge my card for the missed reservation...WRONG! My husband went to the concierge this morning and got that reversed but we wouldn't have known that if he didn't go down to check. We went to epcot this morning and picked up the fast passes only to find out:
1. They weren't individual passes...we had to ride as a whole group or else whatever wasn't used was wasted. Not good if you are traveling with kids who have different tastes in rides.
2. They can only be used in one park.
3. They can only be used on the day they are issued!!
Needless to say we were not happy. I think what bothered me the most is that the two people at guest services were completely indifferent to our situation. They really did not seem to think losing three hours of our vacation was a big deal. We finally ended up talking to one guest service rep who was willing to put the fast passes back on our account and split them up into groups of 4 and 2. We have to stop at guest services every time we go to a new park to pick up the passes we want to use that day until they run out. Inconvenient, yes, but at least my daughter will be able to use some.
Sadly, no one has been able to get us another reservation at O'hana

I am sad that my magical feeling is gone on this trip. Hoping to get some pixie dust our way soon to get it back!