Sorry that statement wasn't clear. We were about the 10th person in line. We were the only person with a wheelchair or
ECV.
We were at the wheelchair car by the pull out ramp. He just kept ignoring us. We had to ask him to load us and that is when he said he wasn't going to do it.
Thanks for the clarification.
It sounds like the CM might not have initially realized that you were using the stroller as a wheelchair and then, with 10 people boarding before you, probably did run out of time.
I'm not sure if you were sent to that gate by the CM 'traffic director' at the entrance or just went there.
What you were told to do "pick it up and load it on," is the way that guests with kids in strollers are handled. Most have the child get out, lift the stroller on and then have the child get back in. They load 1,000s of strollers per day that way and I have personally seen where people have seen us loaded with DD's wheelchair and wanted to use a ramp too (sometimes in a car many cars away - which was why I asked if you had been sent to the correct car for loading).
The
way you were told it was rude though - if you were sent to the wheelchair monorail care and there was not time to get the ramp out, you should have been asked if you wanted to wait for the next monorail car when they could get the ramp out or if you wanted to lift the stroller on.
And, just be aware that "stroller as wheelchair" tags are a little bit of a gray area for transportation - buses, monorails and boats. CMs have written here many times that the GAC or tag for stroller as wheelchair are for use in the theme parks only (not water parks or transportation). Most transportation CMs will recognize them and still treat a stroller the same as a wheelchair (although, unless a stroller is a special needs stroller designed for transport, it can be loaded at the back door, but then is required by Federal Law to be folded the same as any other stroller).
I don't know if you have a tag for the stroller designating it as a being used as a wheelchair. If you don't, get one from Guest Relations if you are going to a park today. If you do have one, make sure to show it to the CMs at each point (some people actually lift it up) and don't wait for the CM to ignore you. If your child can't get out of the stroller and needs to use the ramp, be nice, but assertive (i.e. something like "We are using this stroller as a wheelchair and she is not able to get out. We need the ramp please.")