Moms to be Part 4

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Skuttle -- Congrats on the little boy! And already having a name picked out for him.

Thanks for the registry advice everyone. Maybe I'll go to Target at lunchtime and start the registry!


New additions to the list! Let me know if you want on!

*sunlover13*- Due October 22, 2010- It’s a Boy!
*WDWorBUST*- Due November 16, 2010-It’s a Girl!
*Leger*-Due December 12, 2010- It’s a Boy!
*hotveggy*- Due January 21st, 2011-It’s a Girl!
*skuttle*-Due February 3, 2011-It’s a Surprise!
*talulabelle*-Due March 25, 2011- It’s a Surprise!
*Soccer Princess*- Due April 25, 1011- It’s a Surprise!
*ArielSR*- Due May 9, 2011- It’s a Surprise!
*IHeartTink04*- Due June 3, 2011- It’s staying a Surprise

I'm due Feb. 5, and my DH and I are going to be surprised. We really like making lists of as many names as possible! We've taken to calling the baby Skeletor right now --- those 20 week ultrasound pictures taken head-on (not a profile shot) show that the baby has quite a resemblance to Skeletor currently. :rotfl:
 
Sunlover - your baby boy will be here before you know it :)

Skuttle - Congratulations on finding out it's a baby boy!! I don't know about you, but DD really wanted a sister and I was thrilled when we found out that's what she would be getting. I don't feel the least bit disappointed that we won't have a boy. (I sometimes feel bad for DH that he won't have a son...but I don't think he does) and thanks for the advice on the diabetes....I made sure to have a snack last night and it was better this morning at 91. And I ordered DD's Big Sister Tee online at cookiebabyinc.com, I think there onesies start at size 3-6 months- I actually need to get on there and order a Baby Sister one for Shaylee....time is running out. And then I got a little long sleeve baby sister onesie at my shower that I had registered for at BRU at my shower, but I think it was a size 6 months maybe. But since they are estimating baby will be big it might be just fine.

Well I think I'm feeling better. My mom had to take my dad to the ER last night again for his heart and they admitted him and kept him over night. They are going to release him this morning though and just do some tests and they may have to change his medication. (They put a stent in in July) I'm hoping that's all they end up having to do.

lspst8 - I think two registries just gives people options. I only registered at BRU, but only because I never got around to doing one at Target. Has anyone else had trouble with their registry? I had my first shower this past Sunday and there were probably 15 things I got off of it and only two showed purchased on my registry. So I updated it myself....but really? What's the point. In fact we ended up getting 3 "My Big Sister Loves Me" bibs because of it....which is fine....I told DD that we'd always have a clean one for her that way. But some things duplicates serve absolutely no purpose. I registered for maybe a handful of outfits....because like everyone said...you end up with clothes just because they are so cute!

Leger - that outfit is stinkin' cute!! I LOVE it. I let dd pick out baby sister's coming home outfit and with my guidance she picked an adorable pink cheetah fleece sleeper. It's adorable. We got it from Kohls. She still needs to pick one more because we are getting one in size NB and then I wanted to have a 3 month one just in case since they think baby will be on the larger size (9 pounds-ish). I think we may go do that tonight. I need to get her some sweaters to take to school with her....it's been pretty cool in the mornings and she says her classroom is cold.

Joanne - absolutely adorable outfits :)

Vettechick - I remember the going home pic of Baby G - I thought that headband was the cutest thing ever. Where did you find it?
 
Updated List!

*sunlover13*- Due October 22, 2010- It’s a Boy!
*WDWorBUST*- Due November 16, 2010-It’s a Girl!
*Leger*-Due December 12, 2010- It’s a Boy!
*hotveggy*- Due January 21st, 2011-It’s a Girl!
*skuttle*-Due February 3, 2011-It’s a Surprise!
*lspst8* Due February 5, 2011- It's staying a Surprise!
*DIS B*-Due February 10, 2011- It's a Surprise!
*talulabelle*-Due March 25, 2011- It’s a Surprise!
*Soccer Princess*- Due April 25, 1011- It’s a Surprise!
*ArielSR*- Due May 9, 2011- It’s a Surprise!
*IHeartTink04*- Due June 3, 2011- It’s staying a Surprise!
 

Skuttle -- Congrats on the little boy! And already having a name picked out for him.

Thanks for the registry advice everyone. Maybe I'll go to Target at lunchtime and start the registry!




I'm due Feb. 5, and my DH and I are going to be surprised. We really like making lists of as many names as possible! We've taken to calling the baby Skeletor right now --- those 20 week ultrasound pictures taken head-on (not a profile shot) show that the baby has quite a resemblance to Skeletor currently. :rotfl:


Yay for someone else not finding out the sex! We did it with our first and it was so cool to be surprised! Do you have any gut instinct? We just felt that our first was a girl and we were right!
 
Okay guys I am sorry to be like triple posting but I have a question for you all!


At about how many weeks did you get a BFP because I feel like I got mine super early and that I may be further along than I think. I called my doctor for an appointment yesterday and I am not going until the end of of October and even thought I won't see a doctor so I am just wanting to see if I am crazy!

I took my first test at 4 weeks and and 4 days and that just seems so early to know!

Am I just being paranoid?
 
I thought this was such a sad story about a new born with preventable weak bone problems, and child abuse authorities. Thought to post the article.

http://www.vitamindcouncil.org/

The Vitamin D Newsletter
September 18, 2010

Another tragedy

This is a periodic newsletter from the Vitamin D Council, a non-profit trying to end the epidemic of vitamin D deficiency. If you want to unsubscribe, go to the end of this newsletter. If you are not subscribed, you can do so on the Vitamin D Council’s website.

Dear Dr. Cannell:

On June 3, 2010, my five and a half week old daughter was introduced to “child protection, who diagnosed her as being a victim of child abuse. I had brought my new born daughter to a general hospital, after she woke up screaming in pain when I moved her arm. Upon multiple x-rays we found out that she had a fracture in her right arm that had a transverse configuration, without any evidence of external injury (we later learned that a transverse configuration is typical in a pathologically fragile bone). Not understanding how this could have happened to my daughter, I had no explanation for the injury.

Apparently because of the injury and our inability to explain how it happened, the doctors suspected child abuse and contacted the child abuse team who sent social workers to the hospital to interview us. After several hours of questioning, they transferred us to another hospital where we were immediately admitted to the child protection department. After further x-rays and bone scans the hospital found multiple micro-fractures throughout my daughter’s body.
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My daughter’s initial physical examination revealed an asymptomatic child. She did not have any lesions, rashes, bruises, external swelling, nothing, not a mark on her. Neither hospital conducted a careful assessment of my clinical and social history. They did assess her vitamin D levels which were low-normal, but not mine; they did not question me about my nutrition during pregnancy or my delivery. Neither the hospitals nor the doctors acted in an unbiased and reflective manner or take into consideration the totality of evidence. Instead, without conducting a complete evaluation, they quickly diagnosed my daughter as a victim of child abuse.

On June 4th 2010, my infant daughter was taken out of my care and placed in the foster care system. The State appointed my daughter an attorney, who has become an angel for my daughter and to my family. Thankfully, my daughter’s attorney took her job seriously and set out to determine the truth of what happened to my daughter.

After interviewing me and my family and reading the transcripts of the initial interviews of my boyfriend and I written by the emergency social workers from the hospitals, my daughter’s attorney requested all of the x-rays, bone scans and medical reports from both hospitals.

Her attorney asked several doctors to look at the medical information and give their unbiased, expert opinions but they refused to touch the case because child protection was involved. Thankfully, she finally reached out to Dr. Patrick Barnes, a world-renowned neuroradiologist who agreed to look at my daughter’s case. He referred her to Dr. David Ayoub a diagnostic Radiologist out of Chicago IL, to look at the x-rays and bone scans specifically. After an initial review of the films, Dr. Ayoub proceeded to acquire every medical record in existence on my daughter including my prenatal records and ultrasounds, my daughter’s delivery and pediatric records and he had me fill out a medical questionnaire survey.

After careful and thorough review of all medical reports he saw that my daughter was suffering from infantile rickets in the state of healing, and that her bones were in a fragile state. He also stated that my daughter’s skull showed poor mineralization along the sutures and large areas or poor mineralization in the center portion of the skull plates. In addition the parietal skull was flattened.

As Dr. Ayoud was evaluating my daughters medical reports, he asked my daughter’s attorney to suggest that I go see Dr. Michael Holick. Upon his full evaluation of me, Dr. Holick found me to be suffering from osteomalacia, essentially the adult form of rickets.

This process took two months to complete and now, because of the lack of follow through by child protection doctors, my daughter has been without one of the things most critical to her young development, a caring and loving mother. And I have been robbed of some of the most precious moments I could have had with her.

Because it took so long to get the proper diagnosis and after being in foster care for almost two months, the child protection people then decided to place my daughter with her biological father who abandoned me when I was 2 months pregnant. He had not seen or even asked about his daughter until he was contacted by them on June 4th, almost six weeks after her birth.

It has now been 3 months since I have had my precious baby girl. Even with two outstanding doctor reports from two nationally distinguished doctors, the child protection people do not seem to care that my daughter was taken from her mother in error. Because they are essentially a law unto themselves, they have no legal obligation to take this new medical information about my daughter and myself and do anything with it.

It would take pages to explain the twisted system that child protection is, because the system is set up in such a way to always protect child protection; there actually isn't a forum to bring this new information up in front of a judge unless the whole case goes to a trial, which would be months away.

The child protection agencies were set up to protect children, but where are the laws to protect the children and families from these agencies. What do you do when the child protection doctors and social workers are the ones responsible for neglect or abuse?

Still to this day neither child protection or my daughters biological father have taken my daughter to get looked at by a specialist, to make sure that she is getting what she needs to fix her vitamin D deficiency. (Thankfully, Dr. Ayoub assures me that because she has been fed formula since she was removed from my custody, I exclusively breast-fed her for the first 5 weeks, another risk factor for rickets, she is most likely safe from further fractures.) I am not allowed to get any medical information about my daughter as her bio dad has temporary custody. He is only allowing me to see my now 4-month-old daughter one day a week, at a supervised visitation center. In what kind of world does any of this seem right?

I will get her back; it will just take some time. I just hope that other families and children can be saved by being made aware of this epidemic of infantile rickets. Health care providers need to be educated on these issues. Most doctors are not taught to know what to look for when they are dealing with infantile rickets or other metabolic bone diseases. And when neonatal rickets are in the stages of healing the vitamin D and calcium levels are usually normal or high. That's why it's important to test, everything. They need to do their due diligence in ruling out every medical possibility before making their diagnoses. They need to help save families, not break them up.

Helen,
USA

Dear Helen:

Thank God that the court appointed an open-minded attorney to represent your child; that seldom happens in these cases. Usually the attorneys appointed to represent the children are the most rabid of the lot. Also, thank God you found Dr. Ayoub and Dr. Barnes. As you say, the child abuse authorities are a law unto themselves, they do not have to read your reports, file them in your child’s folder, or give your child back. Now that you have two experts and know what is going on, perhaps you may not feel so alone, feel like everyone thinks you are a child abuser, which is the usual outcome in these cases.

A few months ago I discussed an absolutely frightening study. Basically, the study found that about 1/4 of all otherwise normal infants have evidence of infantile rickets while they are still in the womb. If these infants were x-rayed right after birth, I suspect they would be found to have multiple fractures from the very real trauma of coming through the birth canal. That is, it is likely that tens of thousands of infants are being sent home from the hospital with multiple fractures because no one has ever done a study looking for asymptomatic fractures.

Mahon P, et al. Low Maternal Vitamin D Status and Fetal Bone Development: Cohort Study (PDF format). J Bone Miner Res. 2009 Jul 6.

As an aside, the editorial that accompanied this study missed the point. Instead of asking for studies to discover what percentage of infants will have broken bones at birth and thus, how many parents are falsely accused of child abuse due to this tragedy, the authors of the editorial simply asked for more money for scientists.

Hewison M, Adams JS. Vitamin D Insufficiency and Skeletal Development In Utero (PDF format). J Bone Miner Res. 2010 Jan 15;25(1):11–13.

The “we care about kids more than you do” child abuse organizations are simply feeding at the trough of the child abuse industry. “According to the late Dr. Richard Gardner, the reason for increasing false allegations can be rationally explained. “There’s a complex network of social workers, mental health professionals, and law enforcement officials that actually encourages charges of child abuse — whether they are reasonable or not.”

Dr. Gardner was referring to the fact that the Mondale Act of 1974 is responsible for the dramatic increase in child abuse charges because it affords full liability protection for the child abuse industry. They can do the most egregious and wanton things to the children in their care, and their parents, without fear that they will face civil liability charges. The Mondale Act indemnified the child abuse industry, and populated it with people whose livelihoods depend on bringing more and more allegations into the system. Your daughter is simply putting food on someone’s plate.

The child abuse industry was behind the epidemic of “recovered memories” of child abuse in the 1990s and howled when judges started returning malpractice verdicts against recovered memory doctors, which quickly dried up that particular child abuse industry feeding trough. Now, the bread and butter of the child abuse industry is child physical abuse or battered child syndrome, first described 50 years ago in a seminal paper in JAMA, a paper that caused irreparable harm.

Kempe CH, et al. The battered-child syndrome. JAMA. 1962 Jul 7;181:17-24.

Do not expect this tragedy to be solved soon. Too many mouths are sucking at the trough. Also, the child’s father, the man who abandoned you and his child when you were two months pregnant, is he being paid to take care of his own child? I doubt child protection will tell you but I suspect he is being paid.

For almost 50 years, parents like you have either been sent to jail or had their child taken away or both; we are talking about hundreds of thousands of parents. It is all based on a simple observation loaded with face validity: children with lots of broken bones must have been beaten by someone. Now, it is quite possible that most of those hundreds of thousands of infants were never beaten, never abused, never mistreated, they were misdiagnosed, they simply had infantile rickets.


John Cannell MD
Executive Director
Vitamin D Council

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At about how many weeks did you get a BFP because I feel like I got mine super early and that I may be further along than I think.

I took my first test at 4 weeks and and 4 days and that just seems so early to know!

Am I just being paranoid?

We knew we conceived the last weekend in January and I got my BFP on 2/19 so I was only 3 weeks along. I tested b/c I was about 5 days late and we were going to Mexico 3 days later. :eek: Yeah, that was a fun all-inclusive non-drinking vacation for me..........

So, nope, you were definitely not too early to test.
 
Okay guys I am sorry to be like triple posting but I have a question for you all!


At about how many weeks did you get a BFP because I feel like I got mine super early and that I may be further along than I think. I called my doctor for an appointment yesterday and I am not going until the end of of October and even thought I won't see a doctor so I am just wanting to see if I am crazy!

I took my first test at 4 weeks and and 4 days and that just seems so early to know!

Am I just being paranoid?

I got my BFP at 4 weeks exactly. But I had been charting, using a clearblue easy fertility monitor,OPKs, and taking clomid so I was testing as soon as I thought there was any chance for a positive.....it was only 12 dpo. So although it is really early to know.....and I think it makes it harder when you know so soon.....it is totally possible that you are not any further along than you initially thought.
 
I got my BFP at 4 weeks exactly. But I had been charting, using a clearblue easy fertility monitor,OPKs, and taking clomid so I was testing as soon as I thought there was any chance for a positive.....it was only 12 dpo. So although it is really early to know.....and I think it makes it harder when you know so soon.....it is totally possible that you are not any further along than you initially thought.


I agree that is harder when you know so early! It is going to be forever before I even see my doctor, or before we tell anyone. I am having a hard time keeping the secret, especially from my mom. I just hate hiding it! Before anyone comes over I have to scope out the house for anything that screams pregnancy!
 
Hi Ladies!

Isabella Rose arrived as scheduled on 9/21/10 at 1:24 PM via repeat c-section. She was 7 lbs 4 oz and 20 inches.

Here's her birth story: DH & I went to the hospital at 10:30 AM on 9/21, got all set up, then shortly before we were to go back to the OR, the nurse informed me that an ambulance had just arrived with an emergency c-section with twins, and since there are only 2 ORs for c-sections, and they have to keep one open for emergencies, my c-section would be delayed. I was a little annoyed because I was nervous and the bed in triage is really uncomfortable since it constantly comes apart, but there was nothing I could do. The wait ended up being less than 1 hour extra anyway.

I was taken to the OR by 1:20 PM, and Isabella Rose was born at 1:34 PM. I was out of the OR before 2:00 PM, then in recovery until almost 4:00 PM when I was brought back to my room. My sister works at another hospital in the group, and she had requested a specific anesthesiologist work on my surgery, and he was very nice and helpful. He stayed by me the whole time asking how I was doing. Shortly after the spinal block, I started to get nauseous, and he gave me more anti-nausea medication that took care of it pretty quickly. Then I started to get a headache, so he gave me medication to take care of that as well.

DH found it funny that while he was waiting to come in the OR, my OB was asking the nurses if music was on in the OR, and what kind was playing. "I love Rock and Roll" was playing when Isabella was born, then 2 songs later it was Nirvana's "Smells Like Teen Spirit" (I can't remember the song in between). It really didn't bother me at all. I hate silence and need music while I am working, so why shouldn't the doctors do the same? Plus I liked the type of music that was playing :)

One thing that was kind of weird was that the lighting over head had reflective areas between the lights (kind of like at the dentist office, but bigger), so I could see the incision area reflected and part of the baby when she was born. I don't normally like seeing things like that, but I found myself sneaking a peak a few times and it didn't bother me like it normally would.

I don't know if it was the difference between doctors or between the epidural with DS and the spinal block with this one, but I found that it was less painful this time. I also didn't have the problem with uncontrollable shaking after DD was born that I did with DS. I'm not sure what the reason for that is either. Although when I was in recovery the nurses did mention that my temp was a little low, but I run a little lower than normal anyway. They were also a little concerned with my low BP, but again, that is normally pretty low for me.

Nothing unusual happened the next few days, had the catheter removed the next day, after tracking down the nurse - I wasn't very happy with the day nurse on Wednesday. This is the same nurse that literally was ripping my bandage off later that day, and I was crying in pain and actually asked her to stop. The next day I figured out why - she had ripped off a small piece of my skin! I was not happy with her, but luckily did not have her again. My night nurse was the same each night, and she was amazing. My OB said I could leave on either Thursday or Friday, but I wasn't feeling too well yet on Thursday, so I decided to stay until Friday. I felt much better on Friday, so after the doctors made their rounds, we were able to go home around 5:00 PM on Friday 9/24.

We're all so in love with her, especially her big brother Alex. He wants to be with her, looking at her, touching her, hugging her & kissing her ALL THE TIME. It was cute at first, but now it's kind of annoying because he is in her face all the time and it's hard to feed and change her sometimes, and he's bumped my incision area a few times trying to get closer to her.
 
Congrats Pollito!

My friend who had a C-section also got very nauseous and threw up when they moved her. I'm hoping to have a regular birth with an epidural. Are you less likely to get nauseous without a c-section?

I try very hard not to think about the labor part just yet. I'm only 21 weeks, but every now and then my mind wanders and I start to get worried.
 
Congrats Pollito!

My friend who had a C-section also got very nauseous and threw up when they moved her. I'm hoping to have a regular birth with an epidural. Are you less likely to get nauseous without a c-section?

I try very hard not to think about the labor part just yet. I'm only 21 weeks, but every now and then my mind wanders and I start to get worried.
I don't throw up. Period. I had no morning sickness. That said, I got very nauseous during the transition phase. After they did something, it improved. I did throw up from this stuff they made me drink before my c-section (DS got stuck). Mild nausea during the CS, but cured with the IV drugs.
 
Congrats Pollito!! Can't wait to see pictures!

DIS B...with my DS, I had a regular V delivery with epidural and don't recall ever feeling nauseous. I was worried about labor a bit before, but then my water broke 4 weeks early and I knew I had to deliver DS so I wasn't even worried about it when it was actually happening. DH was actually amazed at how calm I was.

WDW...Glad the before bed snack helped your blood sugar!
 
Congrats Pollito!

My friend who had a C-section also got very nauseous and threw up when they moved her. I'm hoping to have a regular birth with an epidural. Are you less likely to get nauseous without a c-section?

I try very hard not to think about the labor part just yet. I'm only 21 weeks, but every now and then my mind wanders and I start to get worried.


I had a spinal block with this c-section, but I had an epi when I was in labor with DS3. I seem to recall being slightly nauseous at some point, but I don't think I actually threw up.

I totally forgot about pictures! :headache: DS was bugging me for a snack so I submit before I finished uploading to photobucket - be back in a few!
 
We've taken so many pics already, here's a few:

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I'm not sure why they're all different sizes and some are so big....:confused:
 
cmskok - congratulations! William is so handsome and such a good sleeper! Isabella regularly slept 4-5 hours at the hospital, and slept 7 hours her first night at home! :thumbsup2 DS3 never slept more than 3-4 hours until he was 7 weeks old.

Joanne - He's so big! And cute! DS3 was so much bigger, I hardly bought any newborn sized clothes for DD, and she's such a tiny little thing that the next size up is swimming on her!

WDWorBust - I was in the same boat as you the last 2 months (on and off). I never bought maternity underwear, used soft and comfy VS undies, but now I wish I had because the top sits just barely above where my incision is, and I have nothing with a higher waist. It worked ok for DS, but for some reason is bothering me this time. I also outgrew my bigger bra the last few weeks, but saw no reason to buy a new one for just a few weeks. Then when the milk came in it got even worse. Luckily my sister is a few sizes bigger than me, so I borrowed a bra and a few dresses from her for a few days to get me through.

sunlover - DD's going home outfit is the pink dress in my pics above, but that probably doesn't help you too much since you are having a boy. With DS, I got him a cute little outfit from Carters at Kohl's.

lspst - I see no problem with registering at 2 stores, gives people more options.

skuttle - congrats on another boy!! I think Carter's makes smaller shirts than 6 months, have you tried them?

IHeartTink - I got a BFP a few days before 4 weeks, some people can get a BFP that early, while others won't. Nothing to worry about. :goodvibes

I'm another big fan of "The Baby Whisperer" and "Happiest Baby on the Block", though I can't take watching Supernanny. I used to tell my mom if I watched the show I would never give her grandkids! :rotfl:
 
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