Moms to be Part 4

[Piecey]

I think the 29-30 week is a big ultrasound. They measure stuff, etc. I would ask for one. I mean if you are paying, what's the big deal?

I was only supposed to have 1 with each of my pregnancies too. I've had 2 this time because they did 1 to date, pending some medical emergency I won't have another.

I had my first (and supposed to be only) ultrasound with Lucas at 18 weeks. Then he failed a NST around 26 weeks so they did an ultrasound. Turns out he was breech, so they did another at 32 weeks to check him out. He was 98%tile at that point (but he had turned) so they did another at 36 weeks to determine if I'd need a c-section. My OB didn't think I needed a c-section, but induced at 39 weeks because she knew he was big. I ended up needing a c-section... he was a lb+ what she thought he was going to be and never made it past my pelvis.

My ultrasounds are $703 a piece. My insurance company requires a letter for every ultrasound over 1 and if they don't find it medically necessary, they don't pay. One of my ultrasounds for Lucas was denied (the one where they looked to see if he was breech, they said it was preventative and they don't pay for preventative testing). Luckily, I had 2 insurance companies at the time so when primary kicked it back as having no benefit secondary paid because they hadn't paid for one. I think insurance is the primary reason doctors are saying only 1 per pregnancy, but thats just my opinion.

 

[phragmipedium]

I'm on day two of bedrest...had some high blood pressure over the weekend and had to make two trips to the hospital. It's always been 120/80 give or take a few points at every appt, and now it's in the 140s/150s over 90s. If I lay on the couch and do nothing, it's 130s over 80s. I have an appt with my doctor again on Friday and hopefully I'll learn more then...if I have to stay on bedrest, if he'll try me on some medications to see if I can go back to work and keep it under control, etc. My PiH panels came back okay and my 24-hour urine test did also, so I'm not really sure what will happen. I'm also not sure what kind of implications this will have on the type of delivery I have...I've been hoping for a non-induced, full term, ******l delivery where I might or might not have an epidural depending on what I need. Now I'm more fearful of an earlier, induced, medicated ******l or c-section. It's just hard to potentially lose some control over decisions, even though I know you can't expect your plans to go smoothly.


I did get the okay to go to our first childbirth class tonight. Bedrest is really hard and I wish this wasn't happening...I don't want the baby to come early, of course for baby's health, and also because I've been looking forward to spending whole summer at home with my husband and our baby (DH teaches), and if it comes early I will have to go back to work early also when my 12 weeks off is up. Our June 10th due date was perfect and would put me back to work in the beginning on September. I'm just anxious and worried right now - baby's been great at all monitoring, which is wonderful and most important - and DH has been wonderful. And we're both very ready to meet Baby - just not too early.

 

[LaurenLC]

I'm on day two of bedrest...had some high blood pressure over the weekend and had to make two trips to the hospital. It's always been 120/80 give or take a few points at every appt, and now it's in the 140s/150s over 90s. If I lay on the couch and do nothing, it's 130s over 80s. I have an appt with my doctor again on Friday and hopefully I'll learn more then...if I have to stay on bedrest, if he'll try me on some medications to see if I can go back to work and keep it under control, etc. My PiH panels came back okay and my 24-hour urine test did also, so I'm not really sure what will happen. I'm also not sure what kind of implications this will have on the type of delivery I have...I've been hoping for a non-induced, full term, ******l delivery where I might or might not have an epidural depending on what I need. Now I'm more fearful of an earlier, induced, medicated ******l or c-section. It's just hard to potentially lose some control over decisions, even though I know you can't expect your plans to go smoothly.


I did get the okay to go to our first childbirth class tonight. Bedrest is really hard and I wish this wasn't happening...I don't want the baby to come early, of course for baby's health, and also because I've been looking forward to spending whole summer at home with my husband and our baby (DH teaches), and if it comes early I will have to go back to work early also when my 12 weeks off is up. Our June 10th due date was perfect and would put me back to work in the beginning on September. I'm just anxious and worried right now - baby's been great at all monitoring, which is wonderful and most important - and DH has been wonderful. And we're both very ready to meet Baby - just not too early.

I sadly feel your pain... I was on bed rest most of last week. I got to go back to work Monday and Tuesday, but I had my follow-up doctor's appointment today. I got the news that I was dreading... No more work...

I spent another 5 hours in OB triage this afternoon, but should be thankful that I was sent home. I now get to have regular weekly doctor's appointments, weekly non-stress tests, weekly 24 hour urine tests and bi-weekly ultra-sounds. All I can say is thank goodness for insurance! I also told my husband this afternoon that I am glad we picked a doctor/hospital that is close to home

We are now just keeping our fingers crossed that we make it to 37 weeks. All three doctors we saw today said that if things stay as they are then they'll deliver me at 37 weeks and 1 day!

 

[EmALee]

Hi! I just found this thread for the first time - I am 12 weeks along with my 3rd baby. This one was a BIG surprise (our youngest is almost 8), but a happy one (it took my husband about 2 days to get color back in his face after I told him . I have read a few pages of the thread - it is nice to remember other people are pregnant, too - no one I know in the "real" world is!

WELCOME!!

Sooo, we went to the u/s appt today.....the little bugger was not exactly cooperative. Head is up past my belly button and butt is right on my bladder! So it was difficult to get a good shot of the "goods", but the tech is guessing....


It's a girl!!!

She said she couldn't see anything between the legs, but was having trouble getting a good close up of the 3 lines. She was poking my stomach pretty hard to try and get the baby to move, but that just made her cross her legs! Looks like I may have a stubborn little lady on my hands already!

Congrats!!

Hi everyone, I am joining in! Hubby and I have spent the last year discussing adding a baby to our DD10 and DS6 and after so much soul-searching, we decided we couldn't take the fertility drugs and the heartbreak again. It took us a year with my son and now I am 6 years older! I wasn't feeling so hot, tried to remember my last period, got a test and here we are. I have no clue of a due date and haven't really told anyone yet. I am so glad to be here.

WELCOME!!!


Ok, I've been out of the loop for awhile but just thought I'd update everyone...

We had a u/s on Friday last week and she's still measuring small for her due date which is a little worrisome but I know if she's not ready she just won't come! She is also head down now, which explains the random pressure I keep feeling on my pelvis and bladder! I had my strep B test last Monday and that was negative which I'm happy about. Now we're going to the OB once a week and just waiting. I've finally gained oh...4 pounds. Which my OB isn't very concerned about because I'm still growing, it's pretty obvious! I also had my baby shower on Saturday and it was very nice. We had about 13 people shoved into my tiny living room. I didn't get a stroller or carseat so I'll have to buy those but I did get a couple of gift cards so that will help. My room is finally done, just waiting for the baby!

I hope everyone is doing well. I leave for Michigan for the weekend on Friday so I'm not sure if I'll be on before that, if not...I hope everyone has a fantastic weekend!

 

[phragmipedium]

I sadly feel your pain... I was on bed rest most of last week. I got to go back to work Monday and Tuesday, but I had my follow-up doctor's appointment today. I got the news that I was dreading... No more work...

I spent another 5 hours in OB triage this afternoon, but should be thankful that I was sent home. I now get to have regular weekly doctor's appointments, weekly non-stress tests, weekly 24 hour urine tests and bi-weekly ultra-sounds. All I can say is thank goodness for insurance! I also told my husband this afternoon that I am glad we picked a doctor/hospital that is close to home

We are now just keeping our fingers crossed that we make it to 37 weeks. All three doctors we saw today said that if things stay as they are then they'll deliver me at 37 weeks and 1 day!

I hear you with insurance! DH and I are so thankful we picked up his insurance also this year. My premiums are fully covered and I have no deductible, but adding his is still going to pay off for us, especially after these two L&D trips!

Do you mind if I ask what range your BP has been in? I know everyone & their doctor is different, but it will give me a little idea of what I might expect at my appt on Friday. Sorry to hear about your bedrest also and hoping 37 weeks 1 day is the day for you.

 

[LaurenLC]

I hear you with insurance! DH and I are so thankful we picked up his insurance also this year. My premiums are fully covered and I have no deductible, but adding his is still going to pay off for us, especially after these two L&D trips!

Do you mind if I ask what range your BP has been in? I know everyone & their doctor is different, but it will give me a little idea of what I might expect at my appt on Friday. Sorry to hear about your bedrest also and hoping 37 weeks 1 day is the day for you.

I think the highest my bp was today was 138/80. It went down the longer I stayed in triage. I had so many numbers thrown out at me today that it's hard to keep track. My husband is far better at keeping track of everything and he's at work right now. Although my bp was high the real concern was the protein in my urine (TMI sorry!)
I had the EASIEST pregnancy up until a week ago. I didn't have any morning sickness, any worries, every doctor's appointment and us was EXACTLY as it should have been.... Boy do I feel like I am paying back now!
Good luck on your appointment Friday!

 

[phragmipedium]

I think the highest my bp was today was 138/80. It went down the longer I stayed in triage. I had so many numbers thrown out at me today that it's hard to keep track. My husband is far better at keeping track of everything and he's at work right now. Although my bp was high the real concern was the protein in my urine (TMI sorry!)
I had the EASIEST pregnancy up until a week ago. I didn't have any morning sickness, any worries, every doctor's appointment and us was EXACTLY as it should have been.... Boy do I feel like I am paying back now!
Good luck on your appointment Friday!

Thanks for the info & the luck! I feel thankful about the lack of protein in my tests. I hope that gets better for you! I did have terrible morning sickness, but other than that, heartburn and soreness, I've had a pretty easy time of it.

 

[WDWorBUST]

So sorry to hear about the bedrest ladies....that does stink.

Okay....need some input please. I am 11+weeks now and my next appointment isn't until 5/5 (next Wednesday) and I'm a terrible ball of nerves. We have one of the ultrasound studios near me that do the 3D/4D ultrasounds that will also do a quick 2D one to confirm pregnancy anytime after 8 weeks. They only charge $40 for this service. I am so antsy, I think because that 12 week mark is so close and I want to get into the "safer" part of the pregnancy. I am so nervous though that I'm really tempted to run out and get one today on lunch just to reassure myself. I also have a doppler on order that might get here today, but there really isn't anyway I can try it out at work even if the mail comes early and it's in it. So is it totally stupid to go spend $40 for some peace of mind ($40 that could buy baby things) when I'm going to the doctor in less than a week now anyway?

 

[Mrs. Charming]

So sorry to hear about the bedrest ladies....that does stink.

Okay....need some input please. I am 11+weeks now and my next appointment isn't until 5/5 (next Wednesday) and I'm a terrible ball of nerves. We have one of the ultrasound studios near me that do the 3D/4D ultrasounds that will also do a quick 2D one to confirm pregnancy anytime after 8 weeks. They only charge $40 for this service. I am so antsy, I think because that 12 week mark is so close and I want to get into the "safer" part of the pregnancy. I am so nervous though that I'm really tempted to run out and get one today on lunch just to reassure myself. I also have a doppler on order that might get here today, but there really isn't anyway I can try it out at work even if the mail comes early and it's in it. So is it totally stupid to go spend $40 for some peace of mind ($40 that could buy baby things) when I'm going to the doctor in less than a week now anyway?

Oh that's a toughy. I'd call and get their hours and availability. Then I'd try the doppler out when you get home, if you can't find a h/b, don't panic (they couldn't find one at 12w with me... talk about panic) and call the place to get a quick confirm visit in.

However, I did jump the gun and paid out of pocket for a gender check at 17 weeks... lol.

 

[LaurenLC]

So sorry to hear about the bedrest ladies....that does stink.

Okay....need some input please. I am 11+weeks now and my next appointment isn't until 5/5 (next Wednesday) and I'm a terrible ball of nerves. We have one of the ultrasound studios near me that do the 3D/4D ultrasounds that will also do a quick 2D one to confirm pregnancy anytime after 8 weeks. They only charge $40 for this service. I am so antsy, I think because that 12 week mark is so close and I want to get into the "safer" part of the pregnancy. I am so nervous though that I'm really tempted to run out and get one today on lunch just to reassure myself. I also have a doppler on order that might get here today, but there really isn't anyway I can try it out at work even if the mail comes early and it's in it. So is it totally stupid to go spend $40 for some peace of mind ($40 that could buy baby things) when I'm going to the doctor in less than a week now anyway?

I'd be scared that trying to use the Doppler would make me even more nervous if I couldn't find the hb..... It was nerve-wracking enough when the doctor had trouble and they warned me ahead of time. As for the ultrasound, if $40 is going to ease your nerves than in my opinion, it's worth it.

 

[Pollito916]

I think the 29-30 week is a big ultrasound. They measure stuff, etc. I would ask for one. I mean if you are paying, what's the big deal?

They did all the measuring at my last u/s, so unless the dr orders another, I won't have another. Depends on the cost, maybe I'll ask next time. But I spent some time reviewing u/s pics online and even posted our pics for opinions and am more confident now that it's a girl. I even started buying a few things already!

btw - I like the white top you are wearing in the pic in front of the castle - is it a maternity top?

I was only supposed to have 1 with each of my pregnancies too. I've had 2 this time because they did 1 to date, pending some medical emergency I won't have another.

My ultrasounds are $703 a piece. My insurance company requires a letter for every ultrasound over 1 and if they don't find it medically necessary, they don't pay..... I think insurance is the primary reason doctors are saying only 1 per pregnancy, but thats just my opinion.

Same policy with my dr (and prior dr in another state). $703 seems really expensive, but I bet you're right about the insurance being the primary reason for most doctors.

I'm on day two of bedrest...had some high blood pressure over the weekend and had to make two trips to the hospital.
I did get the okay to go to our first childbirth class tonight.

Sorry about the bedrest, but I hope your LO stays in longer! Yay for getting to go out in public!

I got the news that I was dreading... No more work...

I spent another 5 hours in OB triage this afternoon, but should be thankful that I was sent home. I now get to have regular weekly doctor's appointments, weekly non-stress tests, weekly 24 hour urine tests and bi-weekly ultra-sounds. All I can say is thank goodness for insurance! I also told my husband this afternoon that I am glad we picked a doctor/hospital that is close to home

We are now just keeping our fingers crossed that we make it to 37 weeks. All three doctors we saw today said that if things stay as they are then they'll deliver me at 37 weeks and 1 day!

Wow, lots of monitoring! I hope you make it to 37 weeks!

We had a u/s on Friday last week and she's still measuring small for her due date which is a little worrisome but I know if she's not ready she just won't come!
I also had my baby shower on Saturday and it was very nice. My room is finally done, just waiting for the baby!

I think you're right, some babies are just smaller than others. Are you and your DH small? It sounds like you had a nice baby shower. How exciting that the room is ready - I'm just starting to decide where to start!

Okay....need some input please. I am 11+weeks now and my next appointment isn't until 5/5 (next Wednesday) and I'm a terrible ball of nerves.....So is it totally stupid to go spend $40 for some peace of mind ($40 that could buy baby things) when I'm going to the doctor in less than a week now anyway?

That is a tough one. I felt the same way as you at that point, and still for awhile after, until recently when I started feeling my baby girl moving around. If I knew there was a place that would calm my nerves for $40, I would be very tempted to do it. But I would also try to talk myself out of it and into saving the money for more important things. Ultimately the decision is up to you and your DH. Is there anything you can do to try to distract yourself? That's what I did to make it through.

 

[Pollito916]

I almost forgot, I wanted to ask you ladies a question. I remember seeing pictures of a girl nursery when I was pregnant with DS and thinking it was so cute. The only part I remember is that the person hung cute little baby dresses on the wall.

I'm pretty sure it was someone on this thread, 3-4 years ago. Do any of you that were around here back then remember it (or was it you?). If anyone else has any cute baby girl nursery pics they want to post, I would love to see them!

This is the bedding set I like right now, but I don't want the walls quite so bright pink:

http://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6E.aspx?GrpTyp=ENS&ItemID=173cfff&DeptID=70676&CatID=71676&PCatID=70676&SO=0&CatSel=4294950472%7cgirls%27+crib+bedding&Ne=4294957900+5+8+18+904+949+833&pagesize=1&CatTyp=RLE&Dep=BABY&N=4294950472&Pcat=BABY&Cat=bedding&Nao=0&PSO=0&CmCatId=70676|71676

 

[Nette]

I almost forgot, I wanted to ask you ladies a question. I remember seeing pictures of a girl nursery when I was pregnant with DS and thinking it was so cute. The only part I remember is that the person hung cute little baby dresses on the wall.

I'm pretty sure it was someone on this thread, 3-4 years ago. Do any of you that were around here back then remember it (or was it you?). If anyone else has any cute baby girl nursery pics they want to post, I would love to see them!

This is the bedding set I like right now, but I don't want the walls quite so bright pink:

http://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6E.aspx?GrpTyp=ENS&ItemID=173cfff&DeptID=70676&CatID=71676&PCatID=70676&SO=0&CatSel=4294950472%7cgirls%27+crib+bedding&Ne=4294957900+5+8+18+904+949+833&pagesize=1&CatTyp=RLE&Dep=BABY&N=4294950472&Pcat=BABY&Cat=bedding&Nao=0&PSO=0&CmCatId=70676|71676

Cute bedding... I remember seeing that nursery too, not sure I saw it here, but can't seem to find it on google.

 

[Mrs. Charming]

Wasn't me either, but it's very cute!

 

[WDWorBUST]

That bedding is really cute! But I agree the walls in the picture are really pink

Well ladies, I went ahead and went yesterday and had an ultrasound. It was really a neat experience. You know at the doctors they just take a look and maybe measure the heartrate and then are done? Well this was 10 or 15 minutes of just watching the baby hang out. S/he was wiggling all over the place....waving his/her arms.....kicking his/her feet....rubbing his/her eyes. So super cute and amazing considering how small s/he is still. It did make me feel much better. Oh, and I realized why I was just so anxious (I hadn't actually put it together myself)....I had been so sick last weekend and my doctor told me to take sudafed and tylenol. Well before I bought sudafed I did a quick search on my phone and saw that it wasn't recommended in the first trimester so I called my OB's office and they said it was fine. So I took it (I was really miserable, I don't like to take medicine when I'm not pregnant even). Well since then I've done more research and I haven't found any resources that say sudafed is okay in the first trimester.....so I think that was just feeding my anxiety. But I feel better now and I go back to my OB on Wednesday next week.

 

[Nette]

That bedding is really cute! But I agree the walls in the picture are really pink

Well ladies, I went ahead and went yesterday and had an ultrasound. It was really a neat experience. You know at the doctors they just take a look and maybe measure the heartrate and then are done? Well this was 10 or 15 minutes of just watching the baby hang out. S/he was wiggling all over the place....waving his/her arms.....kicking his/her feet....rubbing his/her eyes. So super cute and amazing considering how small s/he is still. It did make me feel much better. Oh, and I realized why I was just so anxious (I hadn't actually put it together myself)....I had been so sick last weekend and my doctor told me to take sudafed and tylenol. Well before I bought sudafed I did a quick search on my phone and saw that it wasn't recommended in the first trimester so I called my OB's office and they said it was fine. So I took it (I was really miserable, I don't like to take medicine when I'm not pregnant even). Well since then I've done more research and I haven't found any resources that say sudafed is okay in the first trimester.....so I think that was just feeding my anxiety. But I feel better now and I go back to my OB on Wednesday next week.

I think the issue with Sudafed (at least from what my OB said to me) is that it can raise your blood pressure too much which isn't good at ANY time during pregnancy, but I think it can really effect (Shoot... affect or effect?) blood supply during the first trimester.

 

[Mrs. Charming]

That bedding is really cute! But I agree the walls in the picture are really pink

Well ladies, I went ahead and went yesterday and had an ultrasound. It was really a neat experience. You know at the doctors they just take a look and maybe measure the heartrate and then are done? Well this was 10 or 15 minutes of just watching the baby hang out. S/he was wiggling all over the place....waving his/her arms.....kicking his/her feet....rubbing his/her eyes. So super cute and amazing considering how small s/he is still. It did make me feel much better. Oh, and I realized why I was just so anxious (I hadn't actually put it together myself)....I had been so sick last weekend and my doctor told me to take sudafed and tylenol. Well before I bought sudafed I did a quick search on my phone and saw that it wasn't recommended in the first trimester so I called my OB's office and they said it was fine. So I took it (I was really miserable, I don't like to take medicine when I'm not pregnant even). Well since then I've done more research and I haven't found any resources that say sudafed is okay in the first trimester.....so I think that was just feeding my anxiety. But I feel better now and I go back to my OB on Wednesday next week.

I'm really glad all is well with your behbeh!

Sudafed was always on my "safe lists." I took some in my 1st trimester, I had the worst post-nasal drip that made me puke. Everything seems fine so far, I wouldn't worry too much

 

[WDWorBUST]

I think the issue with Sudafed (at least from what my OB said to me) is that it can raise your blood pressure too much which isn't good at ANY time during pregnancy, but I think it can really effect (Shoot... affect or effect?) blood supply during the first trimester.

Well since I just laid in bed the entire 4 days I was taking it I don't think my blood pressure would have been too elevated from it.

I'm really glad all is well with your behbeh!

Sudafed was always on my "safe lists." I took some in my 1st trimester, I had the worst post-nasal drip that made me puke. Everything seems fine so far, I wouldn't worry too much

I know any medication can pose a problem. And I wasn't taking it even as often as the directions said I could....but it just left me with an uncomfortable feeling. I was so miserable though I can't help but think getting relief was better for me even if I did take medication.

 

[Nette]

Well since I just laid in bed the entire 4 days I was taking it I don't think my blood pressure would have been too elevated from it.



I know any medication can pose a problem. And I wasn't taking it even as often as the directions said I could....but it just left me with an uncomfortable feeling. I was so miserable though I can't help but think getting relief was better for me even if I did take medication.

I'm sure there is nothing to worry about. I took it during this pregnancy too when I had a HORRIBLE cold on the day we came back from our cruise. I tell you, that flight was one of the worst descents ever!!!

 

[Mrs. Charming]

Well since I just laid in bed the entire 4 days I was taking it I don't think my blood pressure would have been too elevated from it.



I know any medication can pose a problem. And I wasn't taking it even as often as the directions said I could....but it just left me with an uncomfortable feeling. I was so miserable though I can't help but think getting relief was better for me even if I did take medication.

I kwym, I didn't take it lightly either. I was completely miserable too.