Thanks guys, virtual shower sounds good, we don't do bridal showers over here so no pressies for me! My mum and aunt are going in together to buy us an engagement gift, we've asked for money for driving lessons as I so need to be driving to visit all these dress shops!!!!
We have the wedding venue picked and need to put the deposit down in the next two weeks to secure it - £750 ($1300 ish) , yipes the spending begins!! Luckily my mum just had some savings mature and she's giving it all to us so that's gonna really help!