wilma-bride
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forgive me, but please remember that I'm using a foreign language here.
From my standpoint, and from the figures of speech or wording we use in french, there is absolutely no way my post could be interpreted as rude. I know that there are a few subtle differences, idioms and wording that differ between our languages, and I do not master them all, so I apologise for that (even if there is no reason for me to). (and to this moment I have absolutely no idea whatsoever of what, in my reply, could have come across as rude, for me it was to the point, sharing information only)
You're right, we're here to give help and advice, that's what I did, and I genuinely thought I had done that in the most neutral way. Only giving the relevant information.
There was no rudeness implied or involved in my post.
And if you want to talk about rude, the replies that came after that were rude, because I only wanted to help and got chastised for that ...
well, nevermind, those things are likely to happen. It's already likely to happen between 2 native english speakers since there is no way to actually know in what kinds of spirit someone posted a reply, but between english and french ... fire and water don't mix, we've been at odds for centuries.
Should I refrain from replying or giving an information if I can help, for fear of sounding a bit rude ?
chmurf, I didn't say that you were being rude, only that the first sentence that you wrote was open to interpretation as being rude , merely from the way that it could be read. And I do appreciate that English is not your native language (although, for what it's worth, I am very impressed at your written English) and I certainly wouldn't want you to refrain from responding. It is very easy to misinterpet written responses since facial expressions and other indicators that a post is written tongue-in-cheek or meant in a kindly way cannot be 'seen' through a computer terminal/laptop screen/iPad etc.
All I am asking is that all posters remember that and take a few seconds to read what they have written before hitting the 'submit reply' button and, if you aren't sure, consider whether it is wise to post.