Yes, it's the descriptions you give of those who like it that I take issue with. Many people say they like not having to be at rope drop, but that doesn't mean they're sleeping in.
Btw- we've had 1 trip in all our trips to WDW that was 10 days or more in length and that was more than 10 years ago. Our last trip was 8, the second longest ever and the 2 previous trips were 3 and 4 days in length. In all 3 trips, FP+ worked very well for us. A vast majority of our trips are 5-6 days long.
That's how we do it, but it can be done by using rope drop or emh's as well. FP+ has far more negatives than positives for you, but not everyone.
Generalizations are rarely accurate.
Generalizations abound, don't they?
I don't think anyone was saying there aren't people who have tried FP+, really kicked the tires on it (for the way they tour anyway), and are not UNhappy with it. I am included in that group, so I know they exist. To go a step further, there are those who have done the above, and have found that, on balance, they like this new system better.
By the same token, I know you have seen the posts (as I have) where people say, essentially - FP+ works great! We slept in, showed up at noon, rode our 3 rides, got a balloon and went back and swam at the resorts. The above is fictional, but I have seen many posts that are some version of this. There are also posts where people say, FP+ is great, but I have to add an extra day at Epcot because it's so much more difficult to ride TT and Soarin on the same day. There are many other versions of FP+ is great statements, where it's clear that some don't understand what you used to be able to accomplish under FP-, or where it's clear that people have changed their touring (by adding days for instance) to compensate for what they have lost under FP+, or where it's clear that what some people want to accomplish with a day of theme park admission is woefully less than what others want to accomplish.
All of the groups of people described above exist.
I understand your particular situation, where you used to go to MK in the morning and then hop to Epcot in the late afternoon, only to find that FPs for TT and Soarin had run out. But that specific situation aside, ordinarily, when someone says, "I love FP+ because I didn't have to show up for rope drop", it means they wanted to sleep in.