Mixed Nuts

[PrincessJasmine08]

See BN for tips & hints on roping & tying!
Remember, babynurse for all your "equine, bovine, & canine needs", surely this falls into one of those catagories!

Gets me every time. If anyone ever wants to make me laugh that's the line you'll need apparently. I don't really know why I find that so funny.

Good luck with those finals, PJ!

Thanks! I just can't wait for them to be done. But then I start summer classes...

I would field this one to the guys, PJ or hey..post a poll???

Why PJ?

Must....keep.....working...

 

[disneymama73]

Gets me every time. If anyone ever wants to make me laugh that's the line you'll need apparently. I don't really know why I find that so funny.


Thanks! I just can't wait for them to be done. But then I start summer classes...


Why PJ?

Must....keep.....working...

Are you the dating specialist???

 

[apirateslifeforme]

Well where are they, dang it?!

Well...one I can't seem to talk to, as evidenced by the disaster last night, and the other is too far away...

 

[apirateslifeforme]

Are you the dating specialist???

If she is, I need an intervention.

 

[PrincessJasmine08]

Are you the dating specialist???

If so I was not aware of it. Maybe Jean knows something that I don't!

 

[PrincessJasmine08]

If she is, I need an intervention.

Interventions really aren't fun, you know. Especially for the person being intervened (which I do not think is a word).

Okay, seriously though, I really don't think it's half as bad as you're making it out to be in your mind. You have to stop playing and replaying it. That will just drive you crazy and accomplish nothing. Just forget about that. It's in the past, nothing you can do to change it. Then...next step...call him again (Maybe Sunday or Monday) and tell him jokingly that you're sorry about the last call it just surprised you that he had his kids. Don't dwell on that. Just sort of laugh about it and then move on. Then I liked your idea about asking him if you can start over. Then just talk to him and see where the conversation goes. If you get the chance or it feels right, you can ask him out, or maybe he will ask you out. BUT, if neither of those two things happen, it's still okay. It might be better to talk to him on the phone a few times before you go out with him anyway. Okay, stepping down.

 

[disneymama73]

Well...one I can't seem to talk to, as evidenced by the disaster last night, and the other is too far away...

Well they're no help.

 

[disneymama73]

Interventions really aren't fun, you know. Especially for the person being intervened (which I do not think is a word).

Okay, seriously though, I really don't think it's half as bad as you're making it out to be in your mind. You have to stop playing and replaying it. That will just drive you crazy and accomplish nothing. Just forget about that. It's in the past, nothing you can do to change it. Then...next step...call him again (Maybe Sunday or Monday) and tell him jokingly that you're sorry about the last call it just surprised you that he had his kids. Don't dwell on that. Just sort of laugh about it and then move on. Then I liked your idea about asking him if you can start over. Then just talk to him and see where the conversation goes. If you get the chance or it feels right, you can ask him out, or maybe he will ask you out. BUT, if neither of those two things happen, it's still okay. It might be better to talk to him on the phone a few times before you go out with him anyway. Okay, stepping down.

YES!!!! Very good advice! I think I've heard it somewhere before... (No, I didn't post it.)

 

[PrincessJasmine08]

YES!!!! Very good advice! I think I've heard it somewhere before... (No, I didn't post it.)

You lost me.

 

[disneymama73]

You lost me.

Sorry, didn't mean to confuse you. I gave Liz the same advice on the phone. I didn't want you to think I had posted the same advice and that you had reiterated it.

I'm confusing myself. I think I need coffee.

 

[apirateslifeforme]

Interventions really aren't fun, you know. Especially for the person being intervened (which I do not think is a word).

Okay, seriously though, I really don't think it's half as bad as you're making it out to be in your mind. You have to stop playing and replaying it. That will just drive you crazy and accomplish nothing. Just forget about that. It's in the past, nothing you can do to change it. Then...next step...call him again (Maybe Sunday or Monday) and tell him jokingly that you're sorry about the last call it just surprised you that he had his kids. Don't dwell on that. Just sort of laugh about it and then move on. Then I liked your idea about asking him if you can start over. Then just talk to him and see where the conversation goes. If you get the chance or it feels right, you can ask him out, or maybe he will ask you out. BUT, if neither of those two things happen, it's still okay. It might be better to talk to him on the phone a few times before you go out with him anyway. Okay, stepping down.

I'm printing this.

Sorry, didn't mean to confuse you. I gave Liz the same advice on the phone. I didn't want you to think I had posted the same advice and that you had reiterated it.

I'm confusing myself. I think I need coffee.

It is the same advice, and I appreciate it from both of you. I'm still upset with myself, though. He either now thinks I hate him, or I'm REALLY into him. I hope he realizes that it's the latter.

 

[PrincessJasmine08]

Sorry, didn't mean to confuse you. I gave Liz the same advice on the phone. I didn't want you to think I had posted the same advice and that you had reiterated it.

I'm confusing myself. I think I need coffee.

Got it! Don't worry, I confuse myself too. Liz, if two people gave you the same advice it just might be good....

I'm printing this.

Okay, and then you have to actually do it!

It is the same advice, and I appreciate it from both of you. I'm still upset with myself, though. He either now thinks I hate him, or I'm REALLY into him. I hope he realizes that it's the latter.

Please help me understand why you would ever think that. Maybe I'm way off here but I see no reason he would come to either of those two conclusions based on your phone call.

 

[apirateslifeforme]

Got it! Don't worry, I confuse myself too. Liz, if two people gave you the same advice it just might be good....

Okay, and then you have to actually do it!


Please help me understand why you would ever think that. Maybe I'm way off here but I see no reason he would come to either of those two conclusions based on your phone call.

It's hard to explain...if you could have just heard the tone in his voice. When I said I'd let him go, he actually sounded irritated. Now I know that I don't know if he was, we weren't standing right in front of each other, so I couldn't see his expression, but if I go by that tone...he sounded mad. Like "why did you bother calling?"

 

[disneymama73]

I'm printing this.



It is the same advice, and I appreciate it from both of you. I'm still upset with myself, though. He either now thinks I hate him, or I'm REALLY into him. I hope he realizes that it's the latter.

He doesn't think you hate him. If you hated him, you wouldn't have called.

 

[disneymama73]

Got it! Don't worry, I confuse myself too. Liz, if two people gave you the same advice it just might be good....

Actually, I think it's up to about 5 people now. So it MUST be good!

 

[PrincessJasmine08]

It's hard to explain...if you could have just heard the tone in his voice. When I said I'd let him go, he actually sounded irritated. Now I know that I don't know if he was, we weren't standing right in front of each other, so I couldn't see his expression, but if I go by that tone...he sounded mad. Like "why did you bother calling?"

Okay, you're right, I wasn't there so I couldn't hear him but I would think the only reason he would sound irritated would be because he was nervous. He wanted to talk to you more, but since his kids were there and he was distracted by that he really couldn't. He was just not expecting the call so he was trying to balance his kids with that so he was distracted. Distracted can come off as irritated or ignoring. I have to go to ballet now, but you really did do fine, Liz. I promise it's not even half as bad as you think it is.

 

[PrincessJasmine08]

Actually, I think it's up to about 5 people now. So it MUST be good!

More evidence in the favor of my argument!

 

[disneymama73]

Okay, you're right, I wasn't there so I couldn't hear him but I would think the only reason he would sound irritated would be because he was nervous. He wanted to talk to you more, but since his kids were there and he was distracted by that he really couldn't. He was just not expecting the call so he was trying to balance his kids with that so he was distracted. Distracted can come off as irritated or ignoring. I have to go to ballet now, but you really did do fine, Liz. I promise it's not even half as bad as you think it is.

This is so true. Who knows what the kids were doing? Maybe they were doing something that was distracting him. I really think it's fine, too.

 

[apirateslifeforme]

This is so true. Who knows what the kids were doing? Maybe they were doing something that was distracting him. I really think it's fine, too.

Well, I couldn't hear a word out of them, except for when the one very quietly asked him for something at the beginning. I could hear her voice, but I couldn't hear what she said. Other than that, it was as if they weren't there.

Maybe his dinner was getting cold.

 

[willis37862]

NICKERBOCKER: I saw the pic last night and was writing a comment about how CUTE it was, but the disboards crashed on me. Hope you see this.

Thank you Elisabeth

Congrats on the baby step, Liz!

the Mixed Nuts all toast to your sucess!

So the cute guy in the front sitting down with the pink shirt must be Rob.