My understanding of the current rules for financial aid "independence" is that a student can only be considered "independent" as follows: (from the fafsa website):
"You are automatically classified as independent if you: Will be 24 by Dec. 31 of the award year; Are a veteran of the U.S. Armed Forces; Are on active duty in the U.S. Armed Forces; Are an orphan or ward of the court; Have legal dependents other than a spouse; Are married; Or are a graduate or professional student."
Was that the case with your daughter? Did she have to wait till she was 24?
Anyway, I'm glad it worked out for your dd!
I'm pretty sure that with the income that Christine posted, her dd will not be receiving any need-based financial aid for college. So even though her income is higher, she needs to save for her dd's college.