Wow this thread sure blew up!

Really I was just complaining because I had decided it was not worth the money...which made me sad. because like everyone, I want to give my kids what they want...but know I can't (or shouldn't) always do it.
We are AP holders and the 5 of us are me, DH, DD(8), DD's friend, and Grandma. We do kind of go all out on DD's birthday every year, but she gets a choice of a birthday party at home with her friends/classmates or a long weekend at Disney with one friend (we cover expenses). We stay at a value resort and go to a park for a day, maybe 2...and spend most of the time hanging out at the pool (her choice). We also go to the HDDR, and she would rather do that than the party when given the choice.
Why not worth it? We have been to one
MNSSHP when DD was 4 and I thought it was just ok. Of course she remembers it differently and wants to go again. She is not big on characters, is probably too old now to participate in the dance parties, gets bored watching fireworks, and doesn't eat candy really.

She definately wouldn't want to go without the rest of the gang, so it would be 5 tickets.
So...the $275 on top of the rest of the trip just isn't worth it. I wouldn't have to sell a kidney to do it (thanks PP for the idea though!

) but it isn't a value for us.
I think they charge too much for the hard ticketed events in general.
Anyway...thanks for all the advice!