Generally, we don't see a lot of children at the Member Updates. With that said, we have taken ds(9) with us

. We let him bring his GBA and headphones, and he usually eats and then quietly plays a couple of games. The CMs have always been really nice to him, and make a point of making him feel welcome.
I don't know if I would take a younger child or one who couldn't entertain themselves QUIETLY. The meeting rooms are fairly small, and a child who is acting like... well... a child... might be distracting and take away from the ability of other members who are trying to listen.
Of course, there was a fully grown man at one of the BW Updates last fall who threw a bigger fit than any of my kids ever have...

he had some choice words to describe his feelings about
DVC, the room he had been given, WDW, and the world at large. Apparently, he was under the mistaken impression that the Member Update was really a member gripe session, and was upset when it wasn't...
