Robert is 11.5 at time of cruise- he's just crossing over to Boy Scouts from Webelos like right now LOL and he's excited about finallly getting to go to "real" camp (vs camping weekends with the den plus DH, etc.) Oh I'm sure they'll have a lot to talk about- Robert will probably want to pick your son's brain about everything. LOL
Back from the dr and thankfully it's nothing serious- but it is weird. Right when we got in the waiting room she told me she had ANOTHER bump further UP on the back of the head- but when I looked it wasn't a bump- it was a cluster of little red bumps right at the follicles!

So ofcourse I showed everything to the dr, he looked her all over plus asked questions and basically she has folliculitis- somehow got infection at some of the follicles in one spot right above the "bumps" she has down her head and neck- and those are swollen lymph nodes from the infection of those follicles! gross! Best I can figure is she scratched there too hard when washing her hair (yes recently I finally relented and let her wash her hair for about the past 2wks or so and her nails aren't completely cut off since she's fighting me about that recently wanting to have "long nails") and PROBABLY they got infected because I'm a bad mom who spoils her rotten (ie: a few days ago I let them swim in the pool even though I"d shocked it the day before and the next day- the day I let her and Robert swim- it was still not showing anywhere near proper level of chlorine. But the water looked okay. KWIM? It wasn't nasty looking- just the test wasn't showing high enough chlorine. I let them swim a bit before I shocked the heck out of it again that evening. KWIM? It was the very next morning she told me about that one bump on the back of the head hence the reason I thought it was a goose-egg and she'd hit her head while swimming or something. KWIM?
But apparently it was bacteria got in her follicles or something which is totally gross and makes me feel bad for letting them swim. What else could have caused it? Maybe getting the scratch while washing her hair- then later messing with it or scratching it with maybe having dirt under her fingernails at the time? I guess that's a possiblity.
But anyway he prescribed some ointment to put on the infected follicles and an antibiotic to help fight it since obviously that's why her lymph nodes are going into overdrive to fight the infection. It's only a few little red spots in a cluster in one tiny area of her head right above where the first "knot" showed up on her head a few days ago. Seems like no big deal but apparently her body is having a hard time fighting it? I dunno. She's stuffy nose now and had a bit of a cough this morning- maybe she was coming down with a cold at the same time and that's why it's a big deal fighting this little infection of her follicles? No clue. She hasn't run fever and says she doesn't feel sick except difficulty breathing thru her nose.....

But I'm glad it's not something serious. I was kinda freaking out with lumps down her neck and her not being able to turn her neck or put her head back without it really hurting. Yanno?
All I know is we gotta get her feeling well and this infection gone before our trip!
(ps. when I read about folliculitis just now when I got home- one article mentioned it can happen from too tight braids. her daddy did braid her hair kinda tight- which she thought was pretty LOL- last week. And I know when Ruby got her hair braided on the last cruise after a few days we had to take them out because she was getting little blister looking things at the edges of the rows of braids- that looked just like these few bumps Rita has in that one spot now! so it sounds like Ruby got folliculitis from the braids but it went away on it's own during the cruise when we removed the braids. From what I'm reading online they can go away/heal on their own -but apparently not for Rita since her lymph nodes are swelling up. KWIM? )
I can't believe you've been able to keep this a secret for so long! I never would have been able to. LOL They are going to be so excited I bet!