Carrie,
Thank you for your kind thoughts and words. Grace actually is holding up better than I am. I guess kids are resilient that way. It is actually a comfort for me because if she was falling apart, as a mom you know that would be even harder than my own grief. Speaking along the same vein, your poor little Sammy will probably not even ever remember this incident. Although he was feeling super yucko and was probably frightened, most people have no memories of anything before they were 5 years old. Hopefully, you can take some comfort in the probability of him not even remembering all this. Christmas 2003, when Grace was 4yrs old, she had a terrible flu. 7 straight days of temperatures in the range of 101.4-104.1. Motrin didn't work, Tylenol didn't work and finally a friend told me to try Advil and that did bring it down a little. By the time I could get her into the doctor, they told me it was a virus, nothing they could do and not to worry about the fever (it was the body's natural defense system!). Of course, when your baby's laying there, not interested in opening Christmas presents (and she loves presents!) and is hallucinating, you worry! The next Christmas (this past) Grace heard us mentioning her past illness and she had no recollection at all of it. It must of been awful for you,, I totally can relate. You'd give anything just to have your baby be ok again. Please know that if you do decide to do any excursions and we are on the ship (we are only planning one excursion), we will be more than happy to help in any way.