Massive thanks for ur support update post 104 24/11/09

[Dimplenose]

I, too, think she's just taking out her grief on you. Do as Claire says delete her as a friend on Facebook and concentrate on Cam.

I wish there was something practical that we could do for you. Sending a hug and lots of pixie dust .

 

[Pegasus928]

I agree with the previous posts. The last thing you need Louise is the added stress this situation is putting on you. I would remove the connection to her on Facebook. If things change between you then you can always add her at a later date.

Thinking of you

Mrs Pegasus

 

[buzz for boys]

You have all said the same as everyone in my life delete her and move on but its really hard to do that when i thought we emant so much to each other at least im starting to feel like its not my fault thats she turned into super cow over night - just wish i understood why !!

Cam bless him is now fast asleep curled up on our bed with his psp still playing in his hands he looks so little when hes asleep

 

[natalielongstaff]

So sorry you have had this additional stress Louise, Delete her from your friends list and move on....its her loss !!

 

[mandymouse]

I think you should delete her as a friend from Facebook and try to put it out of your mind. She is taking the anger she feels on her own son's passing out on you which isn't right and probably won't stop until the grieving process is finished and you need to concentrate on Cam now. We are all here for you

I'm sorry I missed this post earlier Louise, and I agree with everyone else. You should delete her as a friend from Facebook, as you can really do without this kind of stress xx

 

[scottish mum]

I'm glad Cam had a good day at school. as for your friend I would delete her too, she doesn't seem like someone you need around you just now

 

[Pinky166]

I too think you should delete her & forget about it for now, just concentrate on Cam & your family.

It sounds to me like your friend can't cope with what your going through as it's too close to home, one day she will probably realise what she has done & hopefully she will apologise but if not then it's her loss.

In the meantime we are all here for you hun. xxx

 

[joolz1910]

Grief can do funny things to people. Delete her for the moment and deal with the situation when you feel able to.

 

[Tinks1984]

I'm with everyone else on this one Louise, it's a sad thing to have to do, but I'd remove your 'friend' from your Facebook.

From the sound of things, she still is not over the loss of her boy, which is understandable and that is no reason to treat you in this way at all, but I guess, as others have said, grief is different for people.

She may be distancing herself from you as she is trying to block out memories of what happened to her boy and with Cameron's very unfortunate situation, it's quite close to home

For now at least, and a little sanity to you and your family, the only thing to do is try and ignore anything she has to say. And please try not to let everyone at the school get to you, they obviously don't understand the situation your in at present.

On a positive note, I'm so pleased to hear Cam's completed a full day in school, what a wonderful little boy - an inspiration to both other children and adults alike

Massive to you all x x x x

 

[Muscateer]

I agree with everyone too, you have enough going on at the moment without having to put up with your friend's nastiness. Delete her and move on.

Good to hear that Cam enjoyed his day at school. Hopefully he will have another good one today.

 

[Jets fan]

Hi Louise

I agree with everybody else, delete her from facebook and just ignore her for the moment. She seems very bitter and terrible mixed up.

Sending you lots of hugs
Tina

 

[wicket2005]

I hope your day is going okay and little Cam is feeling better.

I would delete your 'friend' for now as others have said. Just concentrate on your family without the added upset of your 'friend's' comments.

 

[T16GEM]

I'm sorry that she is adding to an already difficult situation, have you deleted her?
I hope that Cam is feeling a bit better today.

 

[buzz for boys]

Cameron has come out of school today and said he has had a fab day - no pain at all and it is starting to look like the swelling is going down a bit !! We are back to thinking maybe we could get on a plane after all !! Not getting carried away with the idea though until after his appointment tomorrow.

Now my friend ( and i use that term veery lightly at the moment!!)
I emailed her yesterday to say her campaign of abuse on facebook was really hurting me and i would actually like to meet on neutraul ground to sort it out - why I cant just delete her and move on i dont know always believe the best in people and it kicks me in the bum !!
She sent back that it would stop and please dont be angry with her for not being supportive and she would see me at the school today for hugs but i dont want hugs from here until we had sorted it out properly *** I am really mad at her so basically i told her i was angry at her and that i revisted a dark place for her which ended in me watching my worst nightmare unfold in front of my eyes and not once did i say to her i cant cope with this youre on your own !! she then deleted me !!! by all accounts the tirade of abuse still continues but i can no longer see it so at least its not stressing me out.
Because im a glutton for punishment i emailed her friend and said i think she needs help and as our relationship had turned destructive for us both would she please make her get the help she needs ??? she has replied with simply on the case !!
Louise x

 

[natalielongstaff]

glad to hear Cam has had a good day

 

[Pinky166]

Glad things are looking up with Cam.


As for your "friend" just ignore her now. Let someone else deal with her issues & have it thrown back in their face, you have got more than enough worries of your own.

 

[Dimplenose]

As for your "friend" just ignore her now. Let someone else deal with her issues & have it thrown back in their face, you have got more than enough worries of your own.

I totally agree.

It's great news that Cam has had a good day. I've got my fingers crossed for your WDW trip.

 

[T16GEM]

It's great that Cam has had a good day! I hope that he continues to improve so that you can have your WDW trip

As for your "friend" I think that is shocking behaviour! I can't understand how some people can just turn like that - but it happens a lot

 

[wicket2005]

So pleased to hear Cam has had a good day, fingers crossed for tomorrow and a possible WDW trip.

As to your friend she sounds like she has gone a touch 'psycho' with her mood swings. I would just let her get on with it now, you have made your point. Any bridges to be built have to be completed from her side now.

 

[mandymouse]

I'm so pleased that Cam has had a good day Louise