Yup, I read your entire post - I'm an English teacher, so reading is no problem for me.

Didn't infer at all, as I spoke directly to the issues that you mentioned.
As point of clarification, I will not pass judgment, nor question medical marijuana patients at all, as they are ill. I am only speaking about people who choose to do it for recreation, as it sounds like you do, from the info you have provided. All of the recreation people, are making it very difficult for the ill people to get the medicinal marijuana around here, and that is problematic. I don't believe that legalizing will make a difference in that respect, and that is why I voted the way I did.
We won't get into the differences between book smarts and life smarts...but in my world, there is no difference, as you still have chosen to put a recreational drug into your body.
I based my answer on exactly what you wrote. I never said you smoke everyday, as you particularly mentioned that you didn't. Despite you feeling otherwise, it is still problematic (you can argue with our public health nurses) that you feel the need to smoke up to "unwind" - regardless of whether it's daily (although that would be an addiction), or monthly, the reason/s you smoke up is what we deal with in our students.
I am not comparing you to my students who smoke up everyday either, in terms of how you may present cognitively as a marijuana smoker. I didn't say that it was related to a noticeable difference in intelligence, but you can refer to my above answer in regards to life smarts vs book smarts, in relation to your personal choice to smoke up. Daily smokers are burnouts, but you may never truly know what your brain is capable of, when there are drugs involved.
As an aside, you are lucky that you don't have paranoia or judgment issues either. And I absolutely would ask someone how their judgment is after consuming a glass of wine, as alcohol is a drug, just like marijuana is, so it affects your brain, plain and simple. Come on! That is why you smoke up in the first place. If it weren't, you woudn't waste your time. A hot fudge sundae does not affect your brain, by the way.
You have done whatever research you needed to, in order to justify what choices within yourself, and there is nothing that I, nor anyone else can say about that. Obviously, you did not read any of the links that I provided, but they really are good in terms of a non-lecturing style. They present evidence from a scientific angle, that is easy to understand, about what drugs do to our bodies and minds based on the active ingredients, and their ability to alter our minds. You feel that smoking marijuana occassionally is ok, and compare to other drugs, but my question is this: why do people need drugs (medicinal aside) in the first place? My students do the same thing - they try and convince us that it's ok to smoke up as it's natural, and cocaine or heroine are so much worse. Why are these the only choices?
This is what we teach our students. We teach them that you don't need drugs to alter your state of being, unwind from a long day at work, or to get over a breakup with their boy/girlfriend. You are an adult, so you can do otherwise, but in our world, we need to let them know that despite the fact that there are legal or illegal drugs available, it is not necessary to partake in them at all.
And, as related to the medicinal part of the question, all of the recreational users are making it very problematic for the medicinal users to get what they need. Canada is having huge issues with this, as people are selling their licenses, doctors are fudging documents, and medicinal users are giving it away to friends/family.
Thanks for the discussion, Tiger