My boss always says "Life is not a dress rehearsal. Live it while you can".
I very much subscribe to the philosophy of "plan for tomorrow, but live for today". The two don't have to be mutually exclusive. But I'm speaking as a brain tumor survivor.....so I am very much aware of how quickly "the future" can change.
dancin, I was so sorry to hear about your daughter's friend....I saw her photo and read her story via your FB page. She was a gorgeous young lady. The loss of any human being is a real sorrow, but for someone so young and full of promise.....its truly heartbreaking.
Take those young ladies of yours and have a marvelous time down south while the rest of us are freezin' our buns off here at home

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