Man wants virgin bride ages 12-24!

[chobie]

I never said anything negative about people who have multiple sexual partners. YOU were the one that was negative by implying a virgin was worthless.

I am very bothered by pedophiles. Never said I wasn't. I don't know anyone who isn't. I honestly don't know ANYONE who would think this guy was okay. I really don't see any debate about that.

No, I implied that a man who only requisite for a future wife is having an intact hymen, to the point where he is trying to buy a child bride, is one messed up person.

And the fact that you were just as bothered about my comment then you are about a man trying to buy himself a little girl is unbelievable.

 

[MzDiz]

No, don't bother. Apparently no one worthwhile will want them unless he's someone with a fear of not being adequate. Get them a little experience and then maybe they'll be worth something.

You're acting like that sign is up in YOUR yard. Chillllll. Let me get you a cocktail.

 

[disykat]

Ok then, you tell me why a 45 year old man wants to marry a 12 year old virgin girl.

Other than because he needs someone he can control that won't see what a tremendous loser he is.

Because he's obviously a very sick man. I'm just surprised that supposedly normal people are buying into thinking that virginity would have anything to do with how smart a woman was.

 

[chobie]

Obviously you aren't reading my posts, or the one I responded to. I responded to one post that said "the ONLY reason anyone would want a virgin is so that they couldn't recognize his inadequacy". I found that statement bothersome.
I have most certainly not said anything that validates the sick guy in the OP.

Not JUST bothersome, you found that comment AS bothersome as this pedophile. Now that is bothersome.

 

[MzDiz]

Because he's obviously a very sick man. I'm just surprised that supposedly normal people are buying into thinking that virginity would have anything to do with how smart a woman was.

Ok, when I was 12, I had no idea what a good lover was or what a man's man parts were supposed to look like. If I were married at 12 to a guy who beat me, was selfish in bed and had an unwashed member that an ant would be embarassed to carry around, I probably wouldn't know better. That's what this guy is hoping for. I mean, seriously, he's not looking for virgin graduate students - he's looking for a victim.
This has little to do with someone's sexual experience and more to do with their general experience.

This thread is headache inducing.

 

[disykat]

Obviously, no one is going to "get" my argument - but I'll try again.

IMO pedophiles are known to be sick. This man is obviously twisted. There is not doubt. None. I feel no need to argue to the point. Everyone agrees.

Then all of a sudden a comment was made that IMO implied that virgins were stupid and worthless. Others laughed. Now I felt the need to debate - because IMO whether you have already had sex has nothing to do with your ability to make smart decision or to be seen as a desirable partner.

I guess you could say I was MORE bothered by this comment. The pedophile wasn't worth my effort. It was a done deal - nothing to debate.

Now, if I was asked to prioritize sickos - obviously the pedophile would get a top spot. However if I'm going to say what bothers me more in a conversation - it's probably going to be a smaller point that I think is debatable.

 

[chobie]

Obviously, no one is going to "get" my argument - but I'll try again.

IMO pedophiles are known to be sick. This man is obviously twisted. There is not doubt. None. I feel no need to argue to the point. Everyone agrees.

Then all of a sudden a comment was made that IMO implied that virgins were stupid and worthless. Others laughed. Now I felt the need to debate - because IMO whether you have already had sex has nothing to do with your ability to make smart decision or to be seen as a desirable partner.

I guess you could say I was MORE bothered by this comment. The pedophile wasn't worth my effort. It was a done deal - nothing to debate.
Now, if I was asked to prioritize sickos - obviously the pedophile would get a top spot. However if I'm going to say what bothers me more in a conversation - it's probably going to be a smaller point that I think is debatable.

Amazing. Pedophilia isn't worth your effort but defending virgin brides is. No wonder why we have some many children being sexually assaulted, people have more important things to worry about.

The comments in question were not about grown women who choose to abstain from sex. The comments were about a man who values females only because of their hymen.

Why don't you start another thread about the glories of saving yourself for marriage? Because I don't think most people will be able to get pass the buying a child for sex thing to discuss your "more important" issue.

 

[Chilehead Too]

This world is full of sick and twisted people. yuck

 

[dennis99ss]

Your women, I want to buy your women...
Your daughter, How much for your daughter....

Don't know why, this scene just popped into my head

 

[disykat]

Chobie, Sheesh! I didn't say anything about saving yourself for marriage. You're reading an awful lot into my comments that I haven't said.

I didn't say anything about my viewpoint on your comments being "more important" - it was simply an issue I felt compelled to debate. I found your joking offensive.

I didn't like your joke. I chose to comment on it. Get over it.

If someone said something debatable about Pedophiles, I'm sure I'd be jumping in. I saw nothing debatable about that issue - everyone agreed.

 

[Charade]

12 years old!!!??? What man really wants is a good old-fashioned ***-kicking.

Lieutenant Dan would do it for sure!

 

[chobie]

Chobie, Sheesh! I didn't say anything about saving yourself for marriage. You're reading an awful lot into my comments that I haven't said.

I didn't say anything about my viewpoint on your comments being "more important" - it was simply an issue I felt compelled to debate. I found your joking offensive.

I didn't like your joke. I chose to comment on it. Get over it.

If someone said something debatable about Pedophiles, I'm sure I'd be jumping in. I saw nothing debatable about that issue - everyone agreed.

You said that my joke was as bothersome as pedophelia. Kind of hard to get over.

Now you realize it was not a good comparison and you are trying to change what you said.

Stick to your guns. If you think a joke like that is as horrible as pedophile then stand by your comments.

 

[tarmand]

You said that my joke was as bothersome as pedophelia. Kind of hard to get over.

Now you realize it was not a good comparison and you are trying to change what you said.

Stick to your guns. If you think a joke like that is as horrible as pedophile then stand by your comments.

OMG, can we just move on here? Can we all agree that pedophiles are human pieces of garbage and that there is nothing wrong with being a virgin?

 

[chobie]

OMG, can we just move on here? Can we all agree that pedophiles are human pieces of garbage and that there is nothing wrong with being a virgin?

That's what we had agreed on until someone tried to twist my comment and compare me to a pedophile. No, I'm not ready to move on yet.

 

[CheshireVal]

Ah, gotta love the Dis.

Only here would a thread on an issue that everyone initially agrees about get turned into a debate on something totally and completely different.

Excellent work, guys!

 

[Robinrs]

And he's so darned cute....

I get the feeling that this argument started because of the so called "intentions" of this creep and his reasonings for wanting a virgin. No disrespect to the virgin, heck, I was one for YEARS and proud of it. My problem with this thread is it started with the sensible questioning of how a person could have the cajones to put up a sign like this in public to a fight about the virtuous woman.... WTH????

 

[barbeml]

And he's so darned cute.... /B]

Oh baby, what a hunk! Oh wait...I'm not qualified.

 

[tarmand]

And he's so darned cute....

Wow! What a catch. Too bad I'm neither the right age or of the appropriate experience level. I also really like bacon so I guess I could be considered a pig worshiper.

 

[alliecats]

He needs to amend his sign. To get a wife, he needs to find a woman who LIKES pigs.

 

[barbeml]

He needs to amend his sign. To get a wife, he needs to find a woman who LIKES pigs.