Man fakes death to avoid child support

[Shugardrawers]

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/10924038/

I am sickened. My Dh is always on time and usually pays as much over the minimum as possible. Men like this should be castrated.

 

[lulugirl]

Loser

 

[WIcruizer]

My DW has faked death to avoid sex, but never child support.

 

[lulugirl]

My DW has faked death to avoid sex, but never child support.

I'll have to try that one..."not tonight honey, I'm dead".

 

[nick262]

My DW has faked death to avoid sex, but never child support.

Where is the tag fairy????

 

[Shugardrawers]

My DW has faked death to avoid sex, but never child support.

When I was downloading songs from a website to my IPOD the other night I found an artist by the name of "Dusty Libido". Dh said he didn't know I had a singing career.

 

[dmslush]

Well, my ex left town and hid for about 10 years in order to avoid child support. It wouldn't have surprised me if he had faked his death.

 

[barkley]

he's avoided child support for 2 kids for 25 years and only owes $30k. man that was a low order to begin with.

 

[Free4Life11]

I've always wondered, are women ever required to pay child support if the man gets custody of the kids?

 

[joshsmom]

Scum bag.

 

[dmslush]

I've always wondered, are women ever required to pay child support if the man gets custody of the kids?

Yes, my mother in law lost custody of her daughter. She had to pay child support.

 

[kilee]

I consider myself lucky-- my ex always pays his support. It might be a week or 2 late but he always pays. I cannot believe the extent some people go to to get out of it. Now if he could just be as reliable as his checks are.

 

[Stacerita]

Ugh, men like that make me sick.

Sweetpea's father is like that. I never went for child support but within a year after she was born he left the country. Got a call from his family to tell me that he was gone. That was proabably the best thing he could have done for us.

 

[tmt martins]

Some of this is the courts problems as well .I have a friend that paid support regularly and had reciept to prove it .GF takes him to court (never married or even living together) and now pays less through payrole deduction.She always tries to hit him up for this or that and she's driving new car every other year.
Gf not happy and takes him to court every year .he has no recourse doesn't get to see his daughter when suppose to always an excuse and wants money to see her.He documents everything and Courts doesn't take any of it into concideration.

he worked lots and I mean lots of overtime (that court took into concid.) But when company stopped all OT court said to bad you still have to keep current payments.

I know that there are lots of scum out there but the good get blasted as well.So sometimes they force you to do these type of things

 

[Shugardrawers]

Dh's decree requires 14% of his take home income to be paid in child support per pay period. Sometimes it really hurts and I wish I didn't have to write that check but I do because she's his child and she's a responsibility he took on 18 years ago. Who do these men think will feed and clothe their children if they don't??? Do they really think that making their child go without is a fun way to get back at their ex?? I always write the check for 14% of the total household income, mine included although the court considers only his income. I figure when I married him I took on the responsibility of supporting her too. Her lifestyle should be in keeping with ours at the very least. My father rarely paid a dime but that was back in the days before anyone really enforced child support. I went to bed hungry too many times to do that to her.

 

[Caradana]

My father has literally gone to prison over this. He owes my mother over a half-million dollars, and will never pay a dime, in all likelihood.

When I was 18, he took my mother to court to challenge my paternity, because he didn't want to pay tuition. I am the spitting image of my father. The judge took a hard look at me and tossed it out of court. Fifteen minute speech by the judge, and ten focused on what an idiot he was to not build a life around his kids. Then he followed a suit trying to get me to turn down a four-year degree and go to community college. I'm not kidding, if I had $1 for every hour we've spent in litigation since age 6 ...

These people always get what's coming to them

 

[Tjaleks]

You know if my ex was dead I would actually get money from social security. I haven't received a dime in about a year and a half. So him being dead would be an improvement.

 

[Laura]

Now, what this guy did was the utmost of evil, but my first thought was why didn't the court need a death certificate? A phone call is good enough? That's crazy.

 

[Shugardrawers]

I wondered about the social security thing too. Why would the mother not apply for survivors benefits for her children in which case it would have been quickly learned that a death certificate had never been filed. Or maybe it was and he went so far as to fake that too?

 

[LindsayDunn228]

Why not just save the drama and the trouble and sign over your parental rights?? If you obviously want nothing to with the child, why not go that route?