I have a concern, and it's been eating at me this past week...I would really like some advice here. Actually there are several concerns, any input would be greatly appreciated.
First, I haven't heard from our wish coordinator about anything, is that typical? Our trip is next week! Maybe I'm just nervous because I had called Make A Wish in early January and gave them the dates we'd like to go in Jan, Feb, March and April and they never got back to me. (Our wish had been granted last summer, they were just waiting for us to give them dates.) I called them in April and they had basically forgot about us and booked us right away for May. (Sorry for repeating that, just reminding everyone of our situation.) With that said, I am wondering if I should call them to touch bases? I did get an email forwarded to me from the wish coordinator with the flight info, actually the tickets basically, nothing else.
Secondly, and this is a tough one...I've been watching the weather for the dates we are going to be there, and it is supposed to be 88-90 degrees, plus humidity. We live in California where it gets hot, but not humid. One of the things we wanted to avoid is the heat because this is an issue for Azaria. She overheats very easily as she does not sweat due to her condition and medications. So we have to keep her cool. In the past when we've traveled to the east coast during the summer, she has gotten sick from the heat/humidity and we had to keep her in an air conditioned room or car. (Personally, I am not looking forward to the humidity either as I've been known to get sick myself, spent one summer in Virginia vomiting and nausea due to the humidity!) So, I've been checking the weather since I found out about the dates but that was quite a projection. Not until recently have I been able to see that it will actually be that hot.
I don't know what the policy of MAW is concerning changing your trip date, especially after it is booked. Not only that, I purchased my older son Christophers ticket out of pocket, which is non refundable. If we are allowed to change the date, I am willing to take that hit. I just don't want to make it hard for the MAW and GKTW people.
There are a few other issues that have me concerned about leaving next week, (my mom is ill-stage 4 cancer and not doing well, our finances have changed-taxes! So we don't have as much money as we thought we would to extend our trip, but we can make it work if we have to.)
I am just not sure what to do. I don't want to sound ungrateful at all, and I really want to go, but with all the above, I don't know how to make it work. I don't want MAW to take a hit either because we change dates. The weather is a real issue, I really didn't think when we were given those dates that it would be that hot already. The money situation, well that can be worked out.
So, any advice would be extremely helpful! I really feel I should make a decision today and I'm just making myself sick over it all. Part of me says to just go, but if we do and we are all miserable I will feel so bad for Azaria. I really want this to be a special trip for her. My friends daughter passed away two months after her MAW trip. That really made me want to stop procrastinating this and schedule it, which is what prompted me to called in January. Life is so precious and I don't want to put this off anymore but I am really conflicted.
Sorry to ramble on! I look forward to your advice.