Magic Cruising: Traveling with a toddler, a tween, adult daughter & a lawyer?

so_oregon

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Here's my first attempt at a trip report. My group sails on the Disney Magic on 9/19/09.

A 7-day cruise from Port Canaveral means 9.5 days away from home for those of us on the West Coast. I booked this trip back in February, planning to take three of my grown children, one's husband, and three grandchildren. So, booked a veranda room and the inside stateroom opposite (figuring they could come to visit the ocean anytime they wanted to sit on the veranda).

Unfortunately, the daughter/husband/my step-granddaughter were not able to get time away from jobs/school and so, the group has dwindled down to myself, a toddler (Noah), Noah's mom (Tabi), and my grand-daughter, Jasmine. When we gave up the inside stateroom and moved Jasmine into my veranda room, my TA had to break the news that my room was not meant for four, would not hold four, and that now, instead of being mid-shipped, we were GTY, category 6. :sad2::sad2::sad2:

For four months, we have been sitting, wondering where is Disney going to put us? Are we going to be a 6? Fortunately, we got a liberal sprinkling of pixie dust and this week, when I checked for the umpteenth time on Monday, we had a room assignment...8004--we are now a category 4!!!! pixiedust:pixiedust:pixiedust:

This is especially good news since I expected to have to share walking space with a toddler play-yard crib and now he will get his own bed. (Tabi and I are betting that he doesn't sleep in it).

History of our traveling group:

Noah - first time cruiser/grand-son. He is two. He doesn't talk much but he definitely knows the word "no". He is adorable when he is not throwing a fit because he wants the "owaaange" cup rather than the "bleeeewwwww" cup. Unless of course the blue cup is dirty, in which case, that will be the cup he must have.

Jasmine - first time cruiser/grand-daughter. She is 9. She talks much. She definitely knows the word "no". She is adorable when she is not throwing a fit because she wants to be 10 rather than be 9. She is almost 10. The calendar was put in place to frustrate her and it must be ALL YOUR FAULT. Jasmine's mother let me pull rank as Grama and bring Jasmine on this trip. :cheer2:

Tabi - first time cruiser. She is 27. No, she is 25. Wait, she is 26. (I think it is a "willful forgetting" that my baby is 26 (which of course makes me that much older). She knows the word "no" too. She works for me in my office, having resigned as the queen of the fast food chains about five years ago. She is 6'1". She denies this vehemently. But, since she towers above me, it is a hard thing to deny. I carry around a tape measure to prove it, but she won't let me prove it in front of other folks. :teacher:

Karen - fourth cruise/grama/mom. I am 26 (even if only in my head). Ok. I am 52. I was a stay-at-home mom for many years, then a single mom, raising five kids. I went to community college, then night/undergrad courses, then law school and graduated 11 years ago. After graduation, my family and I moved to Southern Oregon.

Eventually, I opened my own law office. I also am the justice of the peace for my county. (NO ONE was more surprised than me when I won the election). :scared1::scared1:

I don't take many vacations as if I don't work, the mortgage doesn't get paid.....so, most vacations, I log in remotely to my office computer and make sure that the place hasn't burned down and that the Chippendales are not offending the neighboring businesses.

This will be a first -- traveling with children and a grown child and trying to keep the office running, so I figured someone would be able to learn from my "don't's" and plan their working vacation!!:rotfl2::rotfl2:

Stay tuned: next installment -- FE's and Pirate dress-up planning.
pirate:pirate:pirate:
 
yay Karen so glad to see your pre-TR. I have had fun with mine too. I am on your cruise and looking forward to reading more.
Jasmine will be fine, there will be lots to occupy her! My kids pull that "I want my mommy" stuff on my mom too...she has made a new rule that they cannot call me while they are visiting her because they get too upset if we talk.....hope this proves true in Jasmine's case too.
Noah is adorable.
This is going to be a wonderful trip/vacation for you all!
Chippendale's....heeeheeeee :rotfl2:you must love your job.
hope you are feeling better from your ear/sinus occurance!

Paige
 
those Chippendales hide quickly when I am due back in the office....but the taco shop workers (one of the neighbors)--they tell me. I think they are offended by not being asked to strip-dance, so they "rat out" the staff.

Ears are better. Round two is set for Monday, plus a chest x-ray.

Believe you, I would impose that rule of "no calling" unless it is an emergency, but .... I know the two of them are attached.
 
Your trip sounds wonderful!! I am looking forward to hearing how you make out with Noah on the cruise. Is he going to Flounders during the cruise? Cruising with a toddler is a unique experience. We are cruising with an infant!! :cutie:

I hope you have a magical time!!
Looking forward to hearing more.
 

we have 10 hours reserved, 3 hours each sea day a.m. and one night....I hear they increased the time, so might go online and add another evening....

should be interesting...he is right in the middle of the "not only did I say no, I SAID NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO" stage (screaming/loud)...he has been such a good sweet-natured baby up to this point....kind of a shock to find out he inherited a temper from someone (I cannot imagine who).
 
okay, so I booked this trip immediately upon returning from 7 days on the Solstice (aaaaaahhhh) where I experienced verandas for the first time. Yes, three cruises and I was ignorant about the bliss of a veranda.

We started this cruise planning with two cabins, composed of 2 adults and the toddler in one cabin (the balcony, I am no fool) and two adults, two kids in the inside stateroom across from the balcony room. And I found disboards.com from a posting on a "critic"-al message board. Then, the other cabin cancelled on me....down to one cabin, two adults and a toddler and the tween now in with us. I better start thinking about kids on cruises.

The first thing is I start reading about FEs. What in the world is an FE? (yes, there is a FAQ/defnitions link and I completely missed it). Had to do a search until I found a post that explained a FE stands for FISH EXTENDER. Okay. .....

yeah, right. So, where's this fish and why do I want to extend it?

More late night readings and I now know the history of the FE and found out who started the tradition. I also discovered door decorations are "in". Hmmmmmm.

I read the FE thread allll the way through. There are many many talented folks who carefully and thoughtfully handcraft momentos. Let's face it, being talented, careful and thoughtful takes time. I work two, sometimes three jobs. As I explained to a FE participant today, I used to sew. I used to sew a lot. I had three little girls, we attended church regularly (alright, more than regularly, LOTS) and they needed dresses. I made the dresses. They wanted their friends' dresses to match their dresses. I made their friends' dresses too. I made my dresses. :hippie::hippie: NO, we were not all in prairie dresses; it was not a cult (or so they kept telling me).

I gave up sewing for law school. It was a sacrifrice that I had to make. I also gave up cooking. (5 kids....)....but it was another sacrifrice I had to make. We started having hot dogs, taco salads, burritos, take-n-bake pizza and what not. I took up cooking again last week as I figured 11 years was long enough of a sacrifrice. :confused3:confused3

I digress. FEs. I was talking about FEs and time. The decision was made to not hand-craft any FEs but rather purchase items. I cannot tell you what the FEs are as the cruise has not yet happened. I found Oriental Trading Company and BuyCostumes (actually, the costume place had cuter/cheaper stuff). I have been annoying my FE group list to no end, demanding names as names are required. My den floor is covered with little bits and pieces of paper and baggies. I am unprepared and company is coming this evening and taking me to a Sheryl Crow concert over in Medford tomorrow night. I may reward them with a list, a handful of baggies and orders on sorting. pirate:pirate:

Next post -- pirate adventures.
 
Can't wait to hear more about your trip!

Luv the stuff about the FEs. :rotfl: I in fact just finished mine and it felt like I climbed Mt. Everest.

Look forward to your next post and have a wonderful trip.
 
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my sister ROCKS!!!!!!
 
Karen,
You've got a great spirit & attitude!
Hope your trip is Magical! Congrats on the Pixie Dust!!! :cheer2:
 
Subscribing! Love your pre-trip report, very funny! I gave up cleaning for law school...it never came back. :rotfl: I also gave up sewing and that's coming back slowly. And cooking was best form of procrastination, who cares about torts when you can have torte?

My unsolicited office advice: turn off your electronic devices ("MOM, your phone's buzzing AGAIN!" was the refrain of my recent vacation--if my kids swore, there would be "*&%$" between the words "your" and "phone's"), tell everyone you're going in advance and if there's an emergency they can call 9-1-1. It works. Really. From the foregoing, you can see that I'm not that good at turning off the electronic devices, but that's why our next vacation includes a cruise...I'm telling my office that there won't be a signal!
 
lol....the cleaning was never very good to start with.

I told the office no service, but unfortunately, I have to check in, because the money stops flowing when I start flying/cruising....etc.
 
*sigh*.....this was supposed to be a fantastic update on my progress......instead, I have four suitcases in the living room, two suitcases in the den and carryon's all over the place. ARRRGGGHHHH....and I have been working on FE stuff and door magnets all evening as I tried to figure out the new(ish) home printer.

Tomorrow, I will post pics of the wonderful gadget cord gatherer-er that a friend who travels lots told me about....and which I promptly went out and bought. And give my view of the necessary items so that my vacation is actually 95% a vacation. Photos are coming!!!
 
Hope you have a great trip! I'm guessing you might even be on your way already...hope that it's the most boring (but productive) week ever back at the office and that your internet/mobile connections are non-existent. pixiedust:
 
WELL!!!

I suppose y'all noticed that there were no pictures posted the next day?

or the next?

or the next?

BUT THEN, it was trip time! and off we went. I promise lots of pics and several funny (well, funny to me) moments.

Stay tuned.....the next installment is coming
 

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