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[tinkerbell198530]

I got a friend request from some one I don't want to add however if I don't add her she will be very upset. Should I fallow my heart and ignore her request with out regrads to her feelings. Now keep in mind that I have changed my rules and the rule being is that I am just adding friends and not everyone I know

 

[bumbershoot]

This is on Facebook I assume?

Add her, but make what she can see really limited. They just changed the privacy rules; I haven't looked through it yet ot know exactly what you can do, but I'm sure you can still make a list of certain FB friends that see very very very little of what you do.

 

[mtemm]

if you aren't friends with her, why do you care if she is upset with you?

 

[Eeyore'sthebest]

if you aren't friends with her, why do you care if she is upset with you?

That's my thought too.

There is someone that "friended" me twice. I don't like the woman. I am cordial to her face the 1 or 2 times a year I bump into her but I don't want her as a Facebook "friend". Heck, I don't want her as a friend IRL, why would I want her as a cyber-friend. So I hit ignore the first time. Second request came with a little note "I tried to friend you but for some reason it didn't go through." I hit ignore a second time. That seemed to work.

 

[tinkerbell198530]

Thanks everyone but let me give u some more info. Facebook might have chaged there rules but so have I. I decided that when I created this account that I have to feel close to this person and not just the name. That is why my friends are so few on Facebook

 

[N&B'smom]

Thanks everyone but let me give u some more info. Facebook might have chaged there rules but so have I. I decided that when I created this account that I have to feel close to this person and not just the name. That is why my friends are so few on Facebook

Soooooooooo...sounds like you already know your answer.

 

[SC Minnie]

Just ignore her. If she says someone tell her you only have family and very close friends. If she gets upset, so what.

 

[tinkerbell198530]

thanks everyone just did not have the heart at first to ignore her

 

[Mickey527]

I had someone as a friend who would post about their illness 20-30 times a day and list websites we should all read about to learn more about it. I personally didn't need to read one site about epilepsy, let alone 30. I told her that it was hard to read what I wanted with all the junk she kept putting on but she doesn't stop.
I took her off and played dumb, told her I didn't know what happened she just disapeared from my site.
So she sent me another friend request. I to this day haven't opened the request. I click on ignore because she would know. When she asked me again about it I told her I haven't received the request. It is easier to play dumb than to take her off and have her keep asking why.