Wonder how many owners just assumed they were going to gain equity....
you do realize that buying a house is not some promise that you will be able to flip it, right??
Count me in as another big "loser." I bought my townhouse in 2007. I did everything right: 20% down, 30 year fixed rate mortgage, etc. And then the housing market plummeted. My assessment has declined $130k and has left me upside down on my mortgage. My life savings has disappeared. No equity, no exit plan. I had an opportunity this year to relocate and would have loved to have taken it. But I don't have $50K plus realtor fees to shell out in order to sell my house. I do love my house, but at the same time, I feel trapped.
You do realize that 2007 is simply 3 years ago and you brought at the beginning of the recession. Your life savings have not "disappeared". You still have your house, hopefully you are still paying on the mortgage (which means you are building equity) and the market will go up. It will not bounce back 50% in 1 year, it was never meant to do that.

My hubby's co-workers are shocked by our frugality in housing. They have houses that double our square footage and subsequently their mortgage.
Us too. We found a five bedroom, two full bath for about $100,000 less than most of the three bedrooms around here - we have a small yard as the alternative. Could we have bought more? Yeah, we only used a third of the amount of mortgage we were preapproved for. And most of our friends paid $100-150 more for their house than we did. But we love our home, and our monthly mortgage payment, with tax and insurance included, is $25 less than our monthly rent was, and we can still easily swing it if something happens to one of our jobs. That's what I wanted- a home I felt safe, happy and not stressed about finances in.

Where I live you couldn't use the word safe for a 5 bedroom house for under $100,000.00. Sure you may have felt safe financially, but in my world you would probably be in a drug infested roach infested slum. Then again I am in Florida in one of the worst hit counties of this.
All of the people here acting smug(as far as I am concerned) would be in a scary place if they lived where I lived. I have seen countless white collar professionals with good spending habits that are losing their jobs left and right. These are people that are in their 30's and 40's with kids. Should they wait until they get a job where they won't have to move. That is unlikely. So many people around here are transplants due to employment, and I have seen many people go. We have the Rail road here and they are famous for transferring. Yes some people did buy into the bubble trying to make money and acting foolishly, but around here,not so much. I live in a very family oriented place and they are just normal hard working people mostly professional with good salaries that havn't bought in over their heads. So I don't get the attitude of some people. Rant over.
I agree with mhsjax. It has goten pretty smug around here.
We purchased out home over 5 years ago, it would probably be considered a McMansion by some people. We wanted certain things and when we moved there wasn't alot of inventory. We were transferred here by a company and not owning a home would be silly due to tax reasons. Yes we could have settled and purchased a smaller home, but we would have lost the same amount of money.
We are not upside down on our home, we put over $100k down on our house when we purchased it. The loss (in real money) leaves me with a sick feeling in my gut when I think about it. If we were forced to move (by The Man) we would have a difficult time purchasing another home without depleteing our savings for a down payment. We have always "purchased well" with our homes making modest profits when transferred, but it is all gone now!
The house isn't less than $100,000 - it's worth $100,000 less than other homes with less bedrooms. You misunderstood what I said. And to call me smug means you REALLY failed to get the gist of what I was saying. My previous post shows I feel for people who can't do the same as I did - I was just relaying my experience and how I decided to handle my situation. So feel free to rant all you want, but you clearly have it directed to the wrong person.
I sure hope this doesn't sound smug because I sure don't feel smug, but, to some of you who feel trapped and seem disheartened, remember if you have to move for work there's always the possibility of renting out your house.
I'm thinking of doing a re-fi for just that reason. If my husband lost his job or got a great offer that required relocating we could rent this house and maybe come out even or slightly ahead. Of course, I understand this may not apply to everyone depending on the area in which you live.