Betsy -- You look truly amazing! I am so jealous of your toned arms. Mine are so toned from the front but I have horrible sagging skin underneath from all the weight loss and my family doctor says plastic surgery is the only solution at this point. So, I'll continue to wear longer length sleeves and just be proud of what that saggy skin represents. LOL!
Congratulations to everyone who is working so hard to feel their best by their wedding day. All of your hard work will pay off when you look at your pictures and realize that the way you look is the result of serious effort. It is so easy to let the stress of wedding planning PLUS work and other life stresses cause us to eat (I call it "self-medicating with food" UGH!)
I know I've already had my wedding and I had a LOT more weight to lose in the years leading up to it than any of you here, but I lost 70 pounds from January 2005 to January 2008 and kept it off in the year leading up to our VR in January 2009. I am convinced that following Weight Watchers and changing my eating habits allowed me to keep the weight off, rather than losing for the wedding and then immediately gaining it back. I really agree with Betsy about eating all day. I find that if I have protein at breakfast, I can get by until lunch with only a piece of fruit for a mid-morning snack. My mid-afternoon snack of light microwave popcorn holds me until dinner. My biggest challenge is late-night eating, but now that I'm tracking points again, I "budget" for that and don't feel bad about a late evening snack. Even now, when I am being "bad", my weight doesn't fluctuate very much and I am now back on track, trying to lose the last 40 pounds or so to get to my lifetime goal.
I hope it's okay if I stop in to say "hi" and encourage all of you on this thread.

I admire everyone who is making this effort. We are so fortunate that our DFs or DHs love us so much and I never felt I had to lose weight for Howard, but I LOVE that I feel so much better because I lost it (and am still working at it) for me. Good luck, everyone!!