I have absolutely NO problem at all with you posting questions on my PTR! That's what the DIS is for...helping out friends!
However, I will PM you & give you my email address. Then we can also communicate that way...although I do tend to get on DIS more frequently than checking my email. So if its an urgent question, post on my PTR that you sent me an email so I make sure to check it!
I'm hoping that Luke will like the dance parties! I have images in my head of him having a blast with the characters, but who knows! He tends to like things I think he will be scared of & he doesn't like things I think he will love! Funny how that works!
Glad you found the pirate cake on the thread. Yes, I do believe its found pretty much at all of the TS restaurants. You will definitely be able to get the Pirate cake for your DS at the same restaurants as the slipper for your DD!
About the crib, no I've never used one! I wish I could help you out there but unfortunately I can't. I can try to give you advice regarding one though. First of all, we took our son when he was 10 months old and 2 years old. Both times, we paid extra for a King bed room & he slept in between us. Even the Bell Services CM thought we were crazy & asked us about 10 times if he could run down to the main building & grab a pack & play for us. We said no it was fine, he sleeps in between us...but he still insisted on getting on just in case! We finally assured him it was ok & that we had done the same thing our past 2 trips. I thought it was very nice of him to suggest it even though it wasn't needed!
Now, I'm pretty sure that they will provide a pack & play for you free of charge, but they do charge extra per night for a crib. I don't know the cost. You might know more than me if you've ever used a crib at Disney before! Since you said your DS won't sleep in a pack & play, I would definitely get the crib. I don't think it will bother you (as far as space is concerned) being in the room all the time.
I'm assuming you are getting 2 queen beds. We had a King bed room & I can tell you that there was a very large empty space in between the bed & the door. We also had a corner room though & I've heard those are a little bigger (although I don't honestly think they're any different than a regular room other than they have 2 windows! lol) I'll try to find a picture from last trip to show you the amount of space.
To give you an idea, I "stored" the full size stroller, 3 large suitcases, my carry-on bag, and some laundry between the bed & door. The nightstand was also there & my son usually put one of the chairs over there as well. If you're getting a room with 2 queen beds, I still think a crib would fit comfortably in the room. I've never stayed in one though so I can't say for sure. I do know that in all of the rooms, there is a space in between the bench & vanity area. If the crib was in your way, you could always move it over there & then roll it back over by the bed at nighttime.
Sorry that was alot of blabbering! lol I hope it helps though! I'll find the pics of inside the room & post them here for you! And as I said, don't feel bad asking questions on here! You never know if someone else has the same question & you might help them by asking it here!
thanks for all the info! i had forgotten that cribs aren't standard in all rooms. we used one last trip but it was in a 2 deluxe. i have to call and get the rates on that. i did find a floorplan for the rooms so i see what you mean on the spacing.
i wish my ds would sleep in a pack and play or in the bed with his sister. i've tried to get him to take a nap on a bed or rest on a couch and he just refuses to if he is near anyone else, including me. sure would make vacation life easier! anyway, thanks again!