I understand how you feel. It took my family months to convince me to go back on a plane. I was never afraid to fly, I have been all over the world, my oldest DD was born in Okinawa, Japan.
I kept saying "No way, they are using the planes as missles."
Then there was this one event, a man got on a plane and tried to light his shoe on fire, (sorry, does someone have this story? I avoided the news alot when DS went into the service) and the passengers on the plane STOPPED him. Some very large men and a woman.
My point is, when I go, we are:
1 ex-82nd Airbourne Army, 6' 2" 200lbs
1 6'3" 300 lb man, bar bouncer
1 Angry mom who will fight to the death to protect her babies
and that is just in our party..
Airport security is tight, some flights have air marshals and we are Americans who will not be taken down again. They caught us off guard ONCE. I am willing to "bet the rent" that on any flight there are other Americans who will fight for you, I will. Always remember. we are the home of the free, because of the brave. Do not live in fear, but be aware.
I'm proud to be an American, where at least I know I'm free
And I wont forget the men to died who gave that right to me
And I'll gladly stand up next to you and defend her still today........
I've got your back, Lets Roll..........