OK, I'm gonna update here a bit. My son, who is 15, has always had girlfriends. Seriously, since he was like 8. He has had them come and go, broken up, been dumped, never any really bad stuff. This years GF is driving me nuts. Me, not him! I truly dont like teen girls today. They are manipulitave and mean. Can you say power trip? Its like they KNOW they can mess up the boys minds, so they do it for kicks. I cant respect that. And I dont believe that ALL girls are like that either. I know I wasnt, so I'm not buying that line. Anyway, this years girl broke up with him one week after he bought her a beautiful pendant for her birthday (one day before HIS birthday), they got back together later. He planned out a wonderful dinner he was cooking for her for valentines day, ordered special flowers and candy, she dumped him AGAIN a couple of days before. So they ARE NOT going out. ARE NOT. So he goes on a skiing trip (school team, shes not there). While on the trip, he decides he likes this other little girl (shes adorable) and he kisses her. Not a big deal, just a kiss. Afterwards he feels guilty and they decide they just want to be friends. they text message each other saying this. Other girl , who he is NOT GOING WITH, reads his phone messages, grabs his phone and checks it. All kinds of drama now.
He is at school, and all her friends are telling him he is horrible, a cheater, worthless, and actually throwing stuff at him at school in the hallways

. He calls me at home and tells me he is sick and can I come get him. So I do. After he comes home he goes straight to bed and I think hes really sick at this point. I go check on him and he is SOBBING in his bed. I try to get him to tell me what happened and it took him hours to do it. He kept telling me he did a horrible thing and lost his girl forever. (oh brother). When I finally get the story, and figure out what really happened, of course I am upset. I cant stand that this girl has this kind of control over him. I tried to be supportive, but when it comes down to it, I had to say....she cant tell you who you can kiss! She broke up with you...what does she think she is doing? Anyway, this drama went on for several days, Kevin dealt with it better than I did. And I am not sure, but they are probably together again ( I dont think he would tell me!)
I cant imagine how horrible a MIL I will be! But I looked at his online messages, and he is always very mature and very supportive of this girl. No trashy talk, no innuendo, nothing I can see that would make me believe he isnt capable of handling the situation on his own. I am so proud of the person he is. Its makes me crazy when I think some little bimbo can have control over him like that!
OK, enough of that! Good news, he is getting good grades. I asked him what he had and he told me 2 As 1B and a C+. So I tell him the B needs to be an A and the C+ a B. So he brings me the report and its 3 As and a B! He totally read me there! So now what can I say.....nowhere to go with that one. If he had told me correctly first , I would have said, okay, raise that B to an A, but instead he pre-anticipated the outcome. That, in inself is pure genius!
Part 3. Football. My drummer boy decided he wants to play football this year instead. My skinny, asthmatic, disjointed son.

I tell him, its his life and he gets to make his own decisions. So he has been going for 2 weeks and started spring practice today. He was so excited, he caught 3 passes in wide receiver pattern and got an interception on cornerback. I'm not all that familiar with the football stuff, but apparently this is good. I am a little disappointed in him not being on the drumline, just because he is wicked good. But I am not going to stop him from challenging himself in a new way either.
Part 4 . me. I am out of whack on everything. I couldt tell you what I ate lately but its not been great. And exercise nonexistant. My knee seems to be fine today tho, so thats a relief. My physical is tomorrow, and after that I can relax for another year. I think I have been mega=stressing on this, so I will be glad to get it over with.
Sorry so long......
I will try to catch up on journals a bit.
PS. UofL is playing at Rupp arena and I have tickets for thursdays game! That sjust like an hour away!
GO CARDS!
