life sucks....my husband just passed away.

[Lady V]

I am so sorry for you having to go through this. I read about your trip and your dd's wishes and then read this. It really breaks my heart but I am so glad you got to have this wonderful trip with him.

 

[all4fun]

I feel so sad for you and your little girls. There are just no words... I'm sorry you have to go through this. Prayers have been spoken.

 

[PiperPizzaz]

 

[bartleby1]

I am so very sorry. I just read about your daughter's wish and your magical trip and then this. Life can be so unfair. My heart is aching for you and your girls. I just wanted to offer some hugs .I know that nothing I can say will take the pain away. Stay strong for your girls but don't forget to take some time for yourself to grieve too.

 

[agentpleakley]

I read your post and I am sitting here in tears. My heart is breaking for you and your children. I can't possibly add more to what others have said. You and your family are in my prayers. I am so terribly sorry for you.

 

[JillHM7]

So, so sorry for your loss. I hope you can find peace at this difficult time in your life. Know that your and your girls are in the thoughts of many.

 

[ksumn1]

I'm sure everything does totally suck right now. I'm so very sorry for your loss. Just try to remember the good times you and DH shared. Keep his memory alive for your children, and I hope that the memories will bring a smile to your face if only for a moment. My prayers are with you and your children.

 

[CJDJ]

I'm sooo sorry for your loss. My cousin lost her hubby when he was 42 unexpectedly. He went in for a test and they punctured him in the wrong spot and he bled internally. I was watching her kids and got the news.
I know you are totally shocked by it! I still remember her face when I seen her. Just total shock! All I can say is surround yourself with loving family members and friends during this time and don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it. Everyone understands how this is a total life change. If you want to talk and can e:mail me. You are in our prayers and I am a homeschool mom also. Just in case you don't know... the Home School Legal Defense has a fund to help you w/your cirriculum. You could inquire for next year.

(((HUGS))))

Carol

 

[beattyfamily]

Oh my, I'm so very sorry. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. Thankfully, your family had one last wonderful trip to WDW to remember. I hope that brings you some comfort.

I don't have any advice or experience to share with you, only my deepest condolences and prayers.

You and your precious family will remain in my prayers.

Take care

 

[mdhkitten]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My daughter's father is 36 and his father passed away at 39 from a heart attack due to what they discovered to be very high cholesterol when Emily's dad was 13 years old. I know it's been hard on him ever since (23 years later), especially since he tested positive for high cholesterol at 13 and still has a fear of the having the same fate as his dad. You and your children will definitely be in my prayers!

 

[DisneyToddlers]

I want to send my heartfelt condolences to you and your children. I truly know the pain and feeling like this cannot possibly be happening. I lost my 1st husband to Leukemia when I was 28 and he was 26, and I have lived with the weight of the grief that is there all the time. Your post brings back a lot of those feelings. I did not, however, have my children at the time, so I have no magic words of wisdom in that regard. Having children with my 2nd husband, I can only imagine how difficult this will be for you and them.

I know what was important in my grieving was talking about it- a lot. I went to some support groups and it was helpful to go and be with people who could understand what I was going through for the most part. The only thing, though, was that I was always the youngest person there and that was hard in itself. But talking about it and really letting yourself go through the pain is better than holding it all in.

Please know that I am here to listen if you want, and it appears that there are a lot of other Dis'ers also. I will also PM you this message.

Hugs,
Patty

 

[StephMK]

I'm am so very sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you & your girls to find some comfort and eventually peace during this difficult time.

 

[czycropper]

I am so sorry for your loss! I know that it can be overwhelming but just keep up your faith. I'll keep you in our prayers.

 

[kcfish]

I am truly sorry for your loss. I am married with 2 little girls. Cherish your time with them and stay strong. They need you more now than ever. You will be in my prayers.

 

[lclark0621]

I am so very sorry for your loss.

 

[poohfriend]

tears and prayers for you and your little ones.

cling to that faith...it's the only thing that will get you through.

May God grant you peace.

 

[nessz79]

Very, very sorry. I'm so glad you have strong faith. I don't know what you're going through, but cling to that faith. It's ok to ask God why. It's even ok to tell God you're angry with Him. God already knows what's in your heart and I'm sure He wants you to be honest with Him.

I hope you are involved in a church and that they are helping you through this. My prayers are with you.

 

[Mkrop]

I am so sorry. We lost my dad when I was 22 but my brothers were 12 and 8 My mom was on an airplane coming home from seeing her sister get married. I got the call from the hospital. I had to wake those sweet little boys and tell them what happen.

Our whole world fell apart that day but we pulled together as a family and my mom did an awesome job raising them, they are now 28 and 24.

I know it is hard now, it will be a rollercoaster but you will find your inner strength and you will get there.

Prayers are with you and your family. God bless you

 

[JoiseyMom]

 

[GrowingUpDisney]

I don't really know what to say. I am very sorry for your loss and I pray that God will comfort you and your children during this time.