That is so frustrating---why would a school allow the parents to treat the teacher like that? I have always felt like my principals have always been on my side and have not allowed that to happen to me. Seems like there are more problems than just the parents there. . .
Possibly, however I think the worst of it was done in public forums and a principal can't really control that. Now, bear in mind I didn't witness anything directly but apparently certain parents were bashing the guy on facebook. Sadly, you can't kick families out of public schools!
I think he made matters worse by emailing all the parents directly with a very defensive email. Which, while it broke my heart to read, was not a very professional way to handle it and didn't help to make him look very mature.
The whole thing was just sickening. All that said, the principal was silent during this, at least from a global communication perspective. He may have met with some parents directly and tried to intercede, I have no idea. I do know that I contacted the principal directly via email after the incident to voice my support and did not receive a response. Of course I didn't get a response from the teacher either but I figured he was under gag order after his ill-timed/thought out email.
The principal is relatively new and seems ok to me but I have heard grumblings from some. The new teacher was somewhat new to teaching, basically a second career after corporate life and came to us from Alabama. I think some parents had major issues with the fact that he didn't have a background in gifted ed (despite the fact he'd made some really really impressive contributions to his school that had been recognized in the 5 years he'd been teaching). I really liked him. I loved his style, his out-of the box-ness and the way he connected with Eric. I also liked the fact of his corporate background. Hi-cap kids can be very out of touch with the real world and I felt like he was more grounded in some ways and they (or at least Eric) need that to pull them back out of their heads!
However the principal and other hi-cap teachers made a big deal during the interview process of stating they were looking for someone with gifted background. He did not and so some parents had it out for him from day one. The whole thing is ridiculous though, 2 out of 3 of the upper grade teachers for hi-cap do not have a background in it either other than they've been doing it at the school for several years but taught mainstream before that. I think the fact that he was an "outsider" really bugged some. Perhaps part of it is due to the economy and feeling like we should take care of locals? I don't know. Supposedly all the teachers in our district that were laid off at the end of the year did end up getting placed so anyone would have been "new".
It is also possible that some of those lovely Northwesterners had an issue with a Southerner teaching their child. The Pacific NW can be a really ugly cliquey place in its own way and a southern accent to some can be a real issue, it sounds "uneducated" to them. While I don't see it directly, given that Jeff is from CA and 2 of our good friends are from CA they have said this is true over and over, I know the one family still feels a little bit like outsiders and they've been here for 4 years.
Again I don't really know. It's all hearsay and I guess at this point, moot. What I do know is that maybe half of the parents in the gifted program are about the worst kind of helicopter parenting you can imagine, as bad as certain soccer mom's and football dad's with their kids. They wanted to tell him how to do his job, how to run certain units, what units to run, run special ones themselves and this was a guy not big on delegation which I respect. It's his class, he should run it how he sees fit and IF I see problems with what is coming home, then and only then would I get involved and it would be 1:1 and in private! To me, third grade is a natural time for this, I experienced it with Evan's teachers in 2nd and 3rd and it was fine with me! But not fine with many parents and that was a mainstream class. Ev's 2nd grade teacher was bashed by most parents I know at his school. I liked her but I was definitely in the minority. She was tough, but fair and had really high expectations of the kids. Which was the best thing to ever happen to Evan. In my opinion school is not supposed to be a playdate! Nor does every teacher need to be warm and fuzzy. She loved those kids in her own way, I can't blame her if she didn't want to interact with the parents. My child was happy and that's all that matters to me. I don't need to be in class everyday like some, to see that he is doing well.
I swear though, people will find something to complain about no matter what. 2nd and 3rd were "too tough" for some but 4th was "too easy" Jeesh!
At any rate, with Eric, I did not have any issues with the level and quality of work coming home. In fact, quite the opposite.
I deliberately distanced myself from it but ICK! I'd like to tell them to get a life and to home school if they think they can do better, or go pay for private!
These are parents that threw an absolute fit about the hi-cap bus potentially being eliminated. I mean really, it's a miracle the program survived and they are going to throw a fit about a bus that could save the district 300K when they needed to shave millions? Talk about entitlement.
Makes me want to put Eric somewhere else but that's not really a solution either.
And we wonder the the quality of our teachers goes down...I can't imagine putting up with this kind of stuff. Corporate politics is bad enough but..BLEH!
Evan's 2 tough teachers? Who we loved? Both took early retirement. Just what my kids need, going to school in a district that gets a rap for being hard to work in. I don't know if it's better or worse than others in the area in this respect (though heard from one Special Ed teacher that it's better than where he is at now) but it certainly concerns me about the quality of applicants we might be seeing. Supposedly 27 had applied over the break and they hope to fill it by the 19th.
Who knows. What I do know is Eric is not impressed with the long term (2 week or more if they don't find someone) sub. He called him "a go with the flow guy". His classmate, my HS BF's son (who is equally appalled...we grew UP in this district!), couldn't even remember the guys last name and told my best friend "I just want a real teacher".
Sorry for the long vent!