I think to each his/her own when it comes to Disney dining, and you really should go with what your family likes. I'd check out the menus at wdwinfo. Our best food experience was at Via Napoli and best SERVICE was at Tony's.....our server at Tony's was so nice and extremely busy, yet our drinks were always full and she always had a smile on her face. Tony's had good Olive Garden-ish food; however, it was not Il Mulino like over at the Swan---but you can tell that from just comparing the menus of these two places!!! I don't think a ritzy fancy Italian restaurant would be good for inside the theme park that caters the most to younger kids and kids at heart. So best wishes, and again, I'd go with the menus and your family's taste. For example, I'd rather have an ice cream sundae for dessert vs. a fancy mousse or brulee'.