Another update, we called and had the RO discount applied, obviously we had to forego free dining but it still ended up cheaper! I guess it's better to get the RO discount for deluxe ?hmm.. But we saved more than 1k total!
Now , I'm trying to find the cheapest airport hotel possible to stay before our 6am flight out of indy, the airport is almost an hr and a half from my place! Yes I'm cheap in certain ways, I spend thousands on this trip but is upset and I have to pay for a hotel the night prior

DH always laughs at me about that lol, it's like how I always complain about paying $5 for shipping in jcrew but the clothes I bought comes out way more
A little out of topic here, but I somehow convinced myself that the nordstrom anniversary sale is a good time to shop for the trip but obviously it's just an excuse to shop, did I say I just bought a vera bradley crossbody during the July 4th sale? Hmm..