Last one to post........... Part 9

[trappednabox]

Well maybe sitting in jail will help him think about the things he has done. He needs to realize the things that he does affects everyone.

Give your Mom a hug and tell her it is from your friends.

Thanks, I'm sure she needs it too!

has your mom spoke to him today?? I think anger classes would be good if he is feeling sorry for what he did and wants to get help!! councling might be good since he has seen this happen to your mom...

He hasn't called yet. I know he has to know we know & how upset we are! The thing that scares me is I don't think he thinks he did anything wrong!!

 

[Mom2Ashli]

I don't think I could ever tell her! He means so much to her, like he did for me. My mom and dad got divorced b4 I was a year old, and my mom divorced Andie's dad when she was very very young. So he's been kind of a dad to both of us

Than he needs to work out his problems and be a better role model for her.

 

[kelljacques@aol.com]

well even if he is like a dad to you guys he needs to be doing the right thing!!! I know he is important to you both but if he is not stable right now maybe you need to keep andi away! she is till so young!!!

 

[trappednabox]

I will be praying for you and your family.

then when she gets home you need to be strong for her..maybe she shouldn't know!! i know it will be tough for you to pretend all is ok!!! go to chucrch and pray tracy and I will be thinking of you!!!

Thanks!!

 

[kelljacques@aol.com]

He hasn't called yet. I know he has to know we know & how upset we are! The thing that scares me is I don't think he thinks he did anything wrong!!

I am sure today he is feeling bad.. maybe last night he didn't see it beacuse of the drinking but today is a new day!!

 

[Mom2Ashli]

He hasn't called yet. I know he has to know we know & how upset we are! The thing that scares me is I don't think he thinks he did anything wrong!!

That sounds like my brother. Somehow we all have to deal with it and he doesn't see what he did wrong. It drives me crazy. But I have been dealing with him for a long time.

 

[kelljacques@aol.com]

Thanks!!

no need for thanks tracy we are all here for you any time you need us!!

you would do the same for any one of us!!!

 

[trappednabox]

well even if he is like a dad to you guys he needs to be doing the right thing!!! I know he is important to you both but if he is not stable right now maybe you need to keep andi away! she is till so young!!!

YEah! I told my mom, I can't see or talk to him right now. It hurts me b/c I love him so much, but I can't stand what he did!!

& I think he does need to be a better role model too Kelli, not only for her, but for his own son too!!

 

[kelljacques@aol.com]

you are right tracy. he should not want his son to grow up with what you did!! and even though you were young when it happend i am sure it has made a big mark on your life!!

 

[kelljacques@aol.com]

when he gets out where will he be going?? home with sil??

 

[Mom2Ashli]

Exactly. He has a family of his own. He does not want his Son to grow up seeing what happened last night

 

[trappednabox]

you are right tracy. he should not want his som to grow up with what you did!! and even though you were young when it happend i am sure it has made a big mark on your life!!

Yeah it has! I don't want either him or Andie to have to go thru what I did growing up! I made sure I let my sil know I will always be here for her and my nephew, no matter what!!

 

[Mom2Ashli]

Tracy you know that we are here for you.

We have said it before and I will say it again. You guys are some of the best friends around. We take care of our own.

 

[kelljacques@aol.com]

I am sure that gave her some comfort in this tough time! you are such a giving person tracy and I am sure she will always remember you are there for he and the little guy!

 

[trappednabox]

when he gets out where will he be going?? home with sil??

I have no idea. I don't want him too, b/c as soon as my sil's family find out what happened there gonna want to kill him! But I don't want him to come here b/c I'm so angry with him! Good thing he has tons of friends

 

[kelljacques@aol.com]

is your mom home or at work now??

 

[Mom2Ashli]

Yeah it has! I don't want either him or Andie to have to go thru what I did growing up! I made sure I let my sil know I will always be here for her and my nephew, no matter what!!

I can't image what you had to go thru.

 

[trappednabox]

Tracy you know that we are here for you.

We have said it before and I will say it again. You guys are some of the best friends around. We take care of our own.

I don't know what I would do if I couldn't come here!

 

[kelljacques@aol.com]

i will pray that he can get the help he needs for hima nd for his family!

 

[Mom2Ashli]

I have no idea. I don't want him too, b/c as soon as my sil's family find out what happened there gonna want to kill him! But I don't want him to come here b/c I'm so angry with him! Good thing he has tons of friends

Maybe if he came home and you let him have it - he would know what it feels like.