Last one to post........... Part 10

[kelljacques@aol.com]

UGH!! I don't know!!! I have to make a decision & I don't know what to do!!

what about?? i feel so out of the loop here!!

 

[Lyn5]

UGH!! I don't know!!! I have to make a decision & I don't know what to do!!

WHAT DECISION???? Was your interview today?

 

[trappednabox]

No it wasn't today, but I still have to make up my mind

 

[kelljacques@aol.com]

well I am off again.. darren is not feeling well tonight!!!

 

[Lyn5]

No it wasn't today, but I still have to make up my mind

Easy for me to say and I know it is hard to do...but maybe try not to worry about it too much. Just go into the interview with a positive outlook and then see what happens.....maybe the way the interview goes will help you decide.

 

[trappednabox]

I don't know if you remember, but I posted awhile back about me having surgery. Well I talked to my Dr today & he wants me to have it. BUT I don't know what to do, I can't have it if I take a new postion b/c I will be in a probationary period for 6 months & I don't know if they will wait for me to come back. BUT if I don't take it I will feel stupid b/c I hate the job I have now & there won't be another postion for me for a VERY VERY long time

 

[Lyn5]

well I am off again.. darren is not feeling well tonight!!!

I hope he feels better.

 

[trappednabox]

well I am off again.. darren is not feeling well tonight!!!

see ya

 

[Mom2Ashli]

UGH!! I don't know!!! I have to make a decision & I don't know what to do!!

When is your interview?

 

[Mom2Ashli]

well I am off again.. darren is not feeling well tonight!!!

Sorry to hear that. Hope he is feeling better soon.

 

[trappednabox]

When is your interview?

later this week! i don't know if I should even go now

 

[Mom2Ashli]

I don't know if you remember, but I posted awhile back about me having surgery. Well I talked to my Dr today & he wants me to have it. BUT I don't know what to do, I can't have it if I take a new postion b/c I will be in a probationary period for 6 months & I don't know if they will wait for me to come back. BUT if I don't take it I will feel stupid b/c I hate the job I have now & there won't be another postion for me for a VERY VERY long time

That is alot to think about.

 

[Lyn5]

I don't know if you remember, but I posted awhile back about me having surgery. Well I talked to my Dr today & he wants me to have it. BUT I don't know what to do, I can't have it if I take a new postion b/c I will be in a probationary period for 6 months & I don't know if they will wait for me to come back. BUT if I don't take it I will feel stupid b/c I hate the job I have now & there won't be another postion for me for a VERY VERY long time

I remember you talking about it before. How long will you be out if you have the surgery? If it is more for health reasons than cosmetic, I would think you should be your health first....but, I can relate to being unhappy at work It is a hard choice

 

[trappednabox]

That is alot to think about.

yeah, I'm not sure whatto do!! If I don't get it I want to quit, but if I quit, I won't have insurance to have the surgery

 

[trappednabox]

I remember you talking about it before. How long will you be out if you have the surgery? If it is more for health reasons than cosmetic, I would think you should be your health first....but, I can relate to being unhappy at work It is a hard choice

I will have to be out anywhere from 6 to 8 weeks. I'm wondering if I should just tell her I don't want the postion anymore, or if I should tell her what's going on, or if I should just interview for it & go from there

 

[trappednabox]

& yeah it is more for health reasons, I have major family history & the Dr said from my test results it looks like I may be pre-diabetic

 

[Lyn5]

I will have to be out anywhere from 6 to 8 weeks. I'm wondering if I should just tell her I don't want the postion anymore, or if I should tell her what's going on, or if I should just interview for it & go from there

I don't know how it is where you work, but some places can't discriminate for health reasons. I went to an interview pregnant before and they had to interview me and didn't bring up the pregnancy directly (I was about 6 or 7 months along so it was obvious). Turns out they didn't care about the pregnancy, they really needed help and were willing to train me before the baby came.

To be safe, if you want the job, maybe you should interview at the end of the week and then let them know about the surgery when it is scheduled? Do you think they would fire you or move you back to your current job?

 

[Lyn5]

& yeah it is more for health reasons, I have major family history & the Dr said from my test results it looks like I may be pre-diabetic

My DSIL just went to the doctor last month, she is only 33 and she had high blood pressure and was borderline diabetic...she has been trying to lose weight and avoid medication. It may be worth it to stick with the job and have the medical.

 

[trappednabox]

I don't know how it is where you work, but some places can't discriminate for health reasons. I went to an interview pregnant before and they had to interview me and didn't bring up the pregnancy directly (I was about 6 or 7 months along so it was obvious). Turns out they didn't care about the pregnancy, they really needed help and were willing to train me before the baby came.

To be safe, if you want the job, maybe you should interview at the end of the week and then let them know about the surgery when it is scheduled? Do you think they would fire you or move you back to your current job?

I honestly don't know what they will do Lyn I want to let them know b/c I would hate for them to be mad about it b/c I was dishonest about it.

 

[trappednabox]

My DSIL just went to the doctor last month, she is only 33 and she had high blood pressure and was borderline diabetic...she has been trying to lose weight and avoid medication. It may be worth it to stick with the job and have the medical.

I've been talking to my mom about it, & I think I will just wait & see what happens. IF I get the new postition, I might be able to work till Jan. b4 I have it, that will get us thru the busiest time of year for us, if I don't get it then I will have it right away and deal with a job I love but co-workers who drive me crazy