I use a combination of Lancome's Fatale and Definicils over primer. I've tried many different brands and application techniques and honestly, I've never found anything that makes my lashes look as long and lush. Just brushing a couple coats of mascara on my lashes does absolutely nothing - you still can't see my lashes so I might as well not even bother.
As far as cutting back on my routine - that's what I'm trying to accomplish with the extensions without sacrificing the look. I don't swim, so I don't have to worry about that. I'm just wondering if I'll be happy with the look. I've seen pictures and some of them look amazing and others....not so much. Also, I'm wondering if I can use eye shadow primer with them. I've heard you can't use oil-based products on your eyes and if I can't use eye shadow primer, I'm not going to get them.
Oh, and thanks LindaR. I knew I was bound to get flack for my beauty routine, but that's ok. We all have our idiosyncrasies and this is mine.