I followed tips on this board and made two reservations at the same time splitting our large party of 13 into two groups. I called Disney dining. It took two tries because I had to hang up after almost two hours the first day unfortunately, but got through yesterday after a little over two hours (after almost 50!! attempts of "All circuits are busy" first). I was happy to get through.
I asked first if it was possible to combine the groups and was told that it is not at this time. I am guessing it depends on the restaurant (we are reserved at San Angel Inn) and there are limitations in the computer system. I then asked if we could have a note placed on the reservation requesting that we be seated at nearby or adjacent tables, and was again told that was not possible, but that we could try showing up a bit early at the restaurant and asking.
For folks who have done this, what strategy was successful, if any? We made a late-ish reservation (8 pm). I was thinking of having someone pop in perhaps around 630 or 7 pm and making the request to the hostess to either be seated together or at adjacent or nearby tables so they would have more time to get something like that set up since of course the restaurant would need time to do it and there are people at different stages of eating and waiting to eat. What has worked for other large parties at San Angel or other restaurants? And I totally get that the best we can do is ask. It is just a major anniversary for my parents, so I want to do the best I can to try to make the request successful.
Thanks in advance!

For folks who have done this, what strategy was successful, if any? We made a late-ish reservation (8 pm). I was thinking of having someone pop in perhaps around 630 or 7 pm and making the request to the hostess to either be seated together or at adjacent or nearby tables so they would have more time to get something like that set up since of course the restaurant would need time to do it and there are people at different stages of eating and waiting to eat. What has worked for other large parties at San Angel or other restaurants? And I totally get that the best we can do is ask. It is just a major anniversary for my parents, so I want to do the best I can to try to make the request successful.
Thanks in advance!