Love the amish country!
There are always the outlets in Riverhead and Deer Park, so I would rather do the amish stuff.
Kitchen Kettle Village, some ice cream place dh and I went to and right next door was a place that sold handmade pretzels, amish guy was going in to help his wife. Forgot what town. I would have to look it up. Strasburg - you could ride the little train there. Its relaxing - not the lirr
I dont like the Hershey resteraunt next door to sight and sound. We like Millers and I think there is another place further out that is huge. Shady Maple, heard its good. Some people like Good and Plenty I think its called.
There is also a farmers market on a saturday next to a library in a nearby town. Dh and I went there. The amish sell produce and baked goods. I dont know if this is only in the summer.
Also there is an inside farmers market, its tiny. I cant think of the nae of it,b ut we werent really impressed with it. We just bought some caramel popcorn.
We just enjoyed driving on the back roads and taking al the sights in.
Also places close pretty early, definetely people on not on Long Island time there
Take a cooler with you and some ice from your hotel if you want to bring any fresh stuff like meats and cheese back home etc.
Have a wonderful time