I have no problem with people disagreeing with me. I have no problem with people saying "this is what works for my family" or even "I don't think it's a good idea to have so many table service meals".
But there is a difference between saying "I wouldn't do that" and saying that someone else is "uninformed" because they weren't smart enough to come to the same conclusion you did. Or think that you can read their mind and
assume the most negative motivation on their part (as you do above).
Did I hope to find people who agreed with me - Absolutely. Did I find people who agreed with me? Yes. Even after reading my ADRs there were possitive responses. Did people disagree with me? Absolutely. But only one person felt they needed to personally insult me.
Maybe I shouldn't take it personally when a complete stranger feels it necessary to essentially call me an idiot on a public forum because they don't agree with me. But I don't understand why you care so much about a stranger's plans.