OK...my kids are grown (youngest is almost 16), and they all survived to adulthood, none of them starved to death along the way, even with our trips to
Disneyland
So...from alllll the posts I've read, the research I've done online (over the last few days), and my extensive credentials and years of experience as a mom (*ahem*):
~ If you got the DDP for free, be grateful. It's FREE. Not everyone is so lucky, so be happy

If your kid doesn't like the choices on the kids' menus at CS, then plan on buying them adult meals OOP. You can still use the CS credit for the beverage, and whatever sides the kid will eat out of the meal. And don't forget the snack credit.
~ If you paid for the DDP, one TS a day more than breaks even for the $11/day cost. That's not even counting the CS or the Snack credit.
~ If you have toddlers, or kids that hardly eat anything, the CS kids' meals should suit them fine. They can fingerpaint with the applesauce

and fling the carrot sticks at their siblings

-- it will give them something to do while the rest of the family eats lunch.
~ If you have kids that
like kids' meals, but are picky about the entree choices, then do your research. After all the planning you must do to get ADR's for your TS meals, I hate to say you need to plan even more -- but you
do, if you want your kids to be happy at lunch time. Just browse the CS menus online for each park -- there is a page for them on this site
http://www.wdwinfo.com/wdwinfo/dining/disneydining.cfm#mk
and make a note of any CS restaurants your kids would hate, and any that have choices they would like. You should find at least a couple of reasonable options to choose from in each park -- and you'll know which CS restaurants to avoid like the plague. Epcot has the greatest variety and some of the best sounding meals for kids if they have a little more sophisticated palate (check out the CS kids' menus for Yakitori, Sunshine Seasons, Tangierine, and the Cantina).
~ if your children are sick of grapes, applesauce, and carrot sticks after 3 days, ask if they can sub fries. Some of the restaurants even say on the menu that they will do that, and they will sub a soda for the other beverages. If you don't see it on the menu, never hurts to ask. If you don't let your kids have fries and sodas, even on vacation, then just don't tell them it's an option.

Oh, and hope they don't look around the restaurant and notice what the other kids are eating.
~ if your kid is a big eater, consider doing a buffet lunch or dinner, most if not all days. The children can choose from all the same selections as adults, and they're sure to find something they like.
~ if Disney would hire me to revamp their kids' meals, the kids and parents would be happier, but according to the feedback I've received from some folks here, Disney would
not be happier...so it's probably not gonna happen. Darn. Guess that means I will just have to go into Guest Relations after all
Actually, I rather be a Disney TA.
