Kendra Plans To Be Strict Christian Mother, Reveals Baby Names

[happygirl]

Trying to bait others into a religious discussion so they can get banned? Nice try.

huh you are reading way to much into this post.

 

[PrincessKsMom]

huh you are reading way to much into this post.

Sorry, guess I should have directed my response to Cindyluwho. I took her post to mean she's basically saying that Kendra is a better Christian than any of us might be because we're being judgmental. That seemed like it was looking to open up discussions of Christianity, which could/would lead to points and potential bannings for discussing a tabu subject.

 

[dnoyes]

Seen Kendra's goodies in Playboy every now and then but had no idea she was a "reality star"

What show was/is she on????

She has a new one called "Kendra" I think it's on VH1 ? could be wrong but I've watched it a few times and it's very funny.

 

[lillygator]

hope all works out for her and I agree cindylouwho

 

[LisaNJ25]

The poor kid.. hope she never googles her mothers name

 

[jemgumby]

Not to sound too naive but what the heck has Kendra done that is so NON Christian, besides sex before marriage? And how many of you had sex outside of marriage?

She is a kind, giving person. She has done tons of stuff for different charities. She doesn't seem to be a selfish or hateful person

Well, FYI I didn't have sex before marriage and neither did my husband. You asked and so I answered. Oh and I was 21 and he was 23! I am not going to get into a religious debate with you but fornication is something a Christian is not commanded to do. Let me clarify as well I think everyone can make mistakes and of course we can all change but like I had posted before I think it's disgusting because she has lived her life as she's pleased (posing nude for playboy, being in a relationship with Hef along with 2 other women at the same time) and then all of sudden now she is preggo she wants to raise her child with Christian standards.......She will have ALOT of explaining to do about her behavior won't she????? By the way, if she can truly change and actually live like a Christian and be an example for her child that is great but for her to change it is going to take a serious committment and completely changing her lifestyle, which requires self denial and that will be hard for her learn most definitely since she has obviously indulged anything she has wanted up to this point (like the gold grill!!!!)

 

[amberg@eastlink.ca]

so my question is will she be giving up her current show? let's face it reality tv is boring without fun/crazy/zany antics, which kendra has pulled out many times on the girls next door. now im not saying being christian you can't do wild stuff, but the wild stuff she has done in the past is what made the show.....

 

[lillygator]

I am not religious in the least so would love to know, what entails being christian as far as working/making money? Can you be a stripper? Can you pummel men on the football field as an NFL player? Are there occupational rules? SAHD?

I am baptized Eps, but we were only holiday church goers, so I did not really get the every Sunday experience. I took a religious course in college but that was about it.

 

[rparmfamily]

I think her show might be on Style or Travel channel? Maybe it's Bravo...I see it listed but don't watch.

Reality stars...not my cup of tea~!

 

[AshleyW]

I'm not about to judge anyone besides myself, so I'll just say that if she's being sincere - I wish her all the best on her "new life" with her husband and baby. I've seen a lot of friends and co-workers do complete 180's once they get pregnant or have a baby, get married, etc. so maybe that's the case with her.

 

[SelfEmployedDebtFree]

Trying to bait others into a religious discussion so they can get banned?

This thread looked like a religious thread to me from the first sentence.

 

[alexandria674]

Well, I am glad that she has some sense of plans for her child. I have known people who have lived unsavory lives, been judged for some of the decisions they made, but become great people and parents. I mean, its one thing to judge her and become cynical over the things she has said and done but it is another to give a person a chance. I think Kendra knows some of the things she did was wrong but then again she is capable of explaining what she did to her child.

 

[kwelch10377]

I use to watch the Girls Next Door here and there and she was pretty young and immature, wasn't a big fan of hers. I have caught a little bit of her new show Kendra and she does seem to have changed and grown up some, but still has some wildness in her, which isn't a bad thing.

It is possible to change your life around, look a Nicole Richie, she has pretty much done a 180.

People many not agree with how she has lead her life, but I don't think that gives you the right to critizing her and the way she hopes to raise her child.

 

[jemgumby]

I use to watch the Girls Next Door here and there and she was pretty young and immature, wasn't a big fan of hers. I have caught a little bit of her new show Kendra and she does seem to have changed and grown up some, but still has some wildness in her, which isn't a bad thing.

It is possible to change your life around, look a Nicole Richie, she has pretty much done a 180.

People many not agree with how she has lead her life, but I don't think that gives you the right to critizing her and the way she hopes to raise her child.

Yes people can change and let's hope she will. I don't have a problem with her wanting to change. The problem I have is the fact that SHE has lived her life the way she has wanted to without any restrictions and now she wants to raise her child as a Christian with according to her "strict" Christian standards. That bugs me in the sense that is she going to be merciful to her child as she wants God to be with her? Will she have expectations of her child that she herself could not attain to? I just hope she is balanced and does not have unrealistic expectations of her child. I see that happen too many times where the parents lived a lifestyle that really wasn't Christian at all and then when they have kids they put these unrealistic "Christian" expectations on them. It is as if they are "atoning" their own self through their children. That is my problem with the whole situation.

 

[ckay87]

Man, I used to teach Sunday School, but it's been a while, so I forget this one. It used to be my favorite too. Crud. So there is this little story in the Bible about the son who went away for a long time, then returned home and the dad was so happy and welcomming. And the other sons were really mad that he got all that attention after being gone for so long. Was it the coat of many colors?

Anyway, this thread feels like a modern day re-enactment of that parable. Kendra, of course, being the son. Some of us here being the other sons. I don't intend to debate this, I just wanted to point to an illustration from the book itself as to why Kendra's new attitude is just a-okay.

 

[minniecarousel]

who?

 

[kwelch10377]

I think people are reading a little too much into what they mean by "strict". Her and her husband just really talked about how they want to be strict in the fact that their children are not going to have everything handed to them and that they want to raise them in the Christian faith and teach them to do good and not be so judgemental of others.

I think when you read what she is saying you need to read Christian as one thing and strict as another.

 

[Hollywoodhaha]

I'm not about to judge anyone besides myself, so I'll just say that if she's being sincere - I wish her all the best on her "new life" with her husband and baby. I've seen a lot of friends and co-workers do complete 180's once they get pregnant or have a baby, get married, etc. so maybe that's the case with her.

I agree.
By the way, have fun on your honeymoon!

 

[Hercules10]

Man, I used to teach Sunday School, but it's been a while, so I forget this one. It used to be my favorite too. Crud. So there is this little story in the Bible about the son who went away for a long time, then returned home and the dad was so happy and welcomming. And the other sons were really mad that he got all that attention after being gone for so long. Was it the coat of many colors?

You're thinking of the parable of the prodigal son (Luke 15:11-32) and also of Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat (see even a skeevey perv like me goes to Sunday school (and theatre) every now and then )

Don't care what a person's background is. They can raise their children how they see fit. I doubt anyone, anywhere is raising their children 100% by whatever religion they worship to.

 

[DznyLvr2005]

yeah she was acting very "christian" at her bachelorette party.