I will have to read my OP to see why you think I said cross dressing makes him gay. Or why you think I care but I'm totally clear on all that stuff. My point was suppossed to be that he was a liar, hiding behind a chain of bad marriages and wrecking the lives of others while living an 'adventurous' sex lfe. gross! I did say he made my gaydar go off. I intimated that I thought his answer about cross dressing was ingenuine, a lie with a wink attached. I have no problem with cross dressing, transgendered, gay, bi, lesbian, etc. although I can see why you might think so from my post. To clear it up-I hate liars,cheaters, bigots, bullies. I hate that society makes people feel like they have to hide their sexual orientation although thankfully, we are making some progress in that direction. Not enough of it. Maybe Kelsey Grammar is a cross dresser, maybe he's a drag queen, gay or straight. I don't care but he's clearly a liar and a cheat. He's creepy and he's screwed up lots of people's lives in his path. I know nothing of his most recent ex-wife other than she's really, really mad at him and it seems that he's mad at her too. I can't stand Kelsey Grammer, the real person. His character, Frazer, was funny, especially on Cheers when he had Bebe Neuwirth to play off.